pearlific1
Well-Known Member
I need clarity.
I've been dating this guy for a while and I have just recently found out that he snoops through my things...texts, emails, Facebook inbox, Twitter inbox, etc. It has gotten to the point where he has started to forward my personal emails to himself. We got into a heated argument last month and he proceeded to forward me an email that an ex had sent asking a general question. He was furious that the ex still had my contact info. (Was I suppose to change it???)
We recently went on vacay together and while I was taking photos using his phone doing various activities I noticed several of my old private photos of an ex and myself (not the same ex from the emails) were saved on his phone...in an album. erplexed. These photos are at least 3 yrs old and I have no idea where they are even saved for him to find them
I recently got a new job and a great deal of communication between my new management team and myself was had via email, including salary info. I never told my bf how much I made because I didn't feel that it was any of his business. He recently let it slip that he "slick knew" how much I made. The only way he'd know that would be from the emails so that's how I know that he is still snooping.
I have nothing to hide. I just want some privacy. I have started to lock EVERYTHING. I just feel weird doing so because that would make someone even more suspicious. How do I handle the snooper?
How do I always end up with crazy men?!
I've been dating this guy for a while and I have just recently found out that he snoops through my things...texts, emails, Facebook inbox, Twitter inbox, etc. It has gotten to the point where he has started to forward my personal emails to himself. We got into a heated argument last month and he proceeded to forward me an email that an ex had sent asking a general question. He was furious that the ex still had my contact info. (Was I suppose to change it???)
We recently went on vacay together and while I was taking photos using his phone doing various activities I noticed several of my old private photos of an ex and myself (not the same ex from the emails) were saved on his phone...in an album. erplexed. These photos are at least 3 yrs old and I have no idea where they are even saved for him to find them
I recently got a new job and a great deal of communication between my new management team and myself was had via email, including salary info. I never told my bf how much I made because I didn't feel that it was any of his business. He recently let it slip that he "slick knew" how much I made. The only way he'd know that would be from the emails so that's how I know that he is still snooping.
I have nothing to hide. I just want some privacy. I have started to lock EVERYTHING. I just feel weird doing so because that would make someone even more suspicious. How do I handle the snooper?
How do I always end up with crazy men?!
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