I'm 28 and I am still a virgin. I have gone on soooooo many dates and had a few relationships. I'm not trying to save myself for marraige, just a committed relationship. Everytime I tell a guy (and it wont be on the 1st date) that Im a virigin he sort of pushes away.
It wasn't an issue when I was younger, but as I get older-that whole scenario gets old. I don't want to be 30 and still a virgin. I want to experience sex too. I feel like it's something I want to do to know what its like and to feel like an adult (I suppose?) Otherwise I am pretty mature with everything else-I have my own place, job, etc but I think this holds me back from forming more committed relationships.
I have one guy who ive been talking to for almost a year that sticks around -we used to date but I told him what's up. He just wanted to casually date but I wanted something more. We hang out and talk a bit. I am thinking of asking him to have sex-no strings attached -just to get the experience out of the way. He has mentioned sex buddies before but I wasn't going for that. Anyway- any advice about my situation would be appreciated.
It wasn't an issue when I was younger, but as I get older-that whole scenario gets old. I don't want to be 30 and still a virgin. I want to experience sex too. I feel like it's something I want to do to know what its like and to feel like an adult (I suppose?) Otherwise I am pretty mature with everything else-I have my own place, job, etc but I think this holds me back from forming more committed relationships.
I have one guy who ive been talking to for almost a year that sticks around -we used to date but I told him what's up. He just wanted to casually date but I wanted something more. We hang out and talk a bit. I am thinking of asking him to have sex-no strings attached -just to get the experience out of the way. He has mentioned sex buddies before but I wasn't going for that. Anyway- any advice about my situation would be appreciated.