@Etherealsmile, @lala89
I did it!![]()
I had to sike myself out. OMG...I'm still laughing at myself. We had a nice little conversation. I told him I did it because of peer pressure. LOL! I felt like the little college student with a crush on the cute, sexy professor. We held a little convo about work and working out. Alot of smiles and stuff. I just wanted to run away.
i think he could tell i wanted to just tell him and run. LOL...well if anything I made a 43 year old man feel like he still got it. LMAO
When I was in grad school (about 23) I dated this guy that was about 37. I didn't like that he was pushy and kinda thirsty acting. Like at the end of our date he bear hugged me and acted like he didn't want to let me go; like he hadn't felt a woman's touch since1989 or something. It was just gross and creepy.
too funny! I'm glad you went for it! How does it feel? Do you think there was any interest from his side? I want deets young lady, that little morsel you provided is not enough
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^^1989 though?!![]()
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I think to myself let me leave before I fornicate and disgrace my Jesus.No serious.
Anyway, I left feeling...like a big girl.
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Too funny!well i'm glad you got that off your chest! So........ about this next victim
who is he?
@BeautifulFlower - Either way, way to go girl! That takes guts. Now you can say hi to him and give flirty and witty one liners...
I usually turn into a nerd when men talk to me...they stare at me too hard and it makes me blush...it's almost like they are examining every inch of my face to try to determine what our children would look like...
Update:
@Etherealsmile, @lala89 , @EllePixie
So he asked me for my number and we're going to lunch.![]()
That is all!!!![]()
I was about to type something similar to this. I don't like how older men look at me...like I'm a rack of ribs...it creeps me out.
^^^This is how I feel the sex would be for some reason and it creeps me out. Like I'll be laying there all young and tender and he'll be ready to pounce on me like I'm a T-bone steak...creepy
Not attracted to older men at all, I'm actually more of cougar. I'll go 2+ years and 2- years. I generally like someone the same age as me so that we can experience life together, not a man that's guiding me all the way thru.
Oh snap!!! **Does sooki-sooki dance**
I'm going to live vicariously through you, lol![]()
I'm laughing because this may be very awkward for me.
Update:
@Etherealsmile, @lala89 , @EllePixie
So he asked me for my number and we're going to lunch.![]()
That is all!!!![]()
Me vicariously living through you or the lunch date?
Yay!! I've been quietly stalking this thread and I knew he was interested in you, he was just reluctant to approach a young tenderoni. I don't think there was anything wrong with your approach, all you did was spark up conversation and show a little interest it was up to him to take the bait and seek out a date and he did!!
** happy dance***
Go ahead then girl!![]()
LOL okay I didn't want you to think I'm a creepo! If he's a cool guy it will be fine...I know what you mean though. I have no idea what I would talk about with someone that much older than me...there must be an article online that will help.The lunch date.
LOL okay I didn't want you to think I'm a creepo! If he's a cool guy it will be fine...I know what you mean though. I have no idea what I would talk about with someone that much older than me...there must be an article online that will help.![]()
OMG...I know...I better start researching. He did call me last Wednesday night. Boy, does he have a deep voice.
But it didnt last long. I think he was a little nervousand I had to pack for a trip I took last week. But it was cool.
Wine + Fine Man + Me =& my big mouth
I may come out the face and say "You know, if I was a heaux, I'd let you....right here....right now. But you old so can you even...ya know"![]()
Its spirits in dem winez
Just kidding![]()
I always think it would be similar to that sex scene in Waiting to Exhale with the chubby dude, unless he were super hot.
I find men over 40 whom have never been married with no children to be single for a reason. They seem to be the worst at stringing women along.I'm guessing they are eternal searchers or serial daters.
Makes me want to say single and just keep a few lovers.![]()