@lala89 , @nichollecaren, @Etherealsmile
You'll really know how to put on the peer pressure...
I saw him yesterday. Yummy, he walked out the locker room with his huge tall frame and that sexy suit! Oh my Oh my I love a man in a suit! I punk'd out because I was in between a set.
Monday...ill get it done.
LOL next time do the bend and snap to show him what time it is![]()
This thread is motivating me to get my butt back to being a gym regular. There's this older guy who I stalk....................I mean admirethat I call "gym guy"
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He really sounds delicious!I hope you bring it home on Monday...we're watching you
Edit BTW whatever happened to the clark kent look alike you went on a date with? Nosy minds want to know![]()
I just read your post twice, and I was thinking...no matter his age I would not have let this man get away![]()
This thread is motivating me to get my butt back to being a gym regular. There's this older guy who I stalk....................I mean admirethat I call "gym guy"
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I agree about older men. My qualms just happen to be about my current particular old man. My mom and dad are 13 years apart and my aunt and uncle are 23 years apart..attraction to older men runs in the family!![]()
yeahoke: @mwedzi
...call him back. You can always have a young man on the side for your other... :Blush2: needs.
my spouse is 8 yrs older than me. im 26 he's 34, we got married when i was 18. i didn't think it was an extreme difference for a while til he turned 30 and started moving at the pace of a slug. never wants to play any sports or bike or walk more than 10 minutes without resting. my sister is 18 now and i think omg i would never marry someone that young! still watchin cartoons all day, video games, and always tryin to be in "in-style" or different.
i would say older guys are less fussy/argumentative, interested in family-life not game playing but more controlling.
yeahoke: mwedzi
...call him back. You can always have a young man on the side for your other... :Blush2: needs.
It worked for meback when I dated much older man with, um, problems saluting.
It worked for meback when I dated much older man with, um, problems saluting.
I know it can work.
I just wouldn't want to be in a marriage and have to have someone else. And we see you aren't with your older guy anymore, either, eh?
@lala89 , @nichollecaren, @Etherealsmile
You'll really know how to put on the peer pressure...
I saw him yesterday. Yummy, he walked out the locker room with his huge tall frame and that sexy suit! Oh my Oh my I love a man in a suit! I punk'd out because I was in between a set.
Monday...ill get it done.
I agree about older men. My qualms just happen to be about my current particular old man. My mom and dad are 13 years apart and my aunt and uncle are 23 years apart..attraction to older men runs in the family!![]()
More pressure.....geezplease please please please do it![]()
My grandparents are exactly 30 years apart.
I did a couple times. What I didn't like was that they tried to control me or treat me as a kid. You have to beware of that. Maybe when you're past your 3rd or 4th decade of life? When you're 20-something, they don't see you as mature enough in your own right and attempt to make you a trophy.
31 and prefer older men but it's getting to be too much. The last guy I dated was 42. Recently went on a date with a guy who was 49 but that's way to old for something serious
Disadvantages:
Possibly divorced
Possibly has children
Many black men suffer from high cholesterol and hypertension which means that they may be on medication.
Medication = increased chance of impotence.
Set in there ways
May not want to have children
Since I look so young the age gap is VERY noticeable which can be uncomfortable sometimes when in public.
Advantages:
The men I've dating have been very chivalrous
Established
Knows what they want out of life
More mature than younger men
Distinguished
Sexier (IMO)
Great in bedIf not impotent
I'll include more when they come to mind.
, this reminds me that if I ever DONT want to be held accountable for something...never post it here.
And yes it is Monday. I am going to the gym at 4pm so we will see.
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No stones here. I disagree that you should make the first move. He is a grown man after all, and from most of the posts in this thread, men his age don't beat about the bush or mess with your mind when it comes to showing what they want. He's already talked to the manager, let him take it further by talking to you. If he's as old as you described him to be I doubt if the woman making the move on him is acceptable to that generation like it is to ours (20s to early 30s).Ok...don't stone me
I punk out terribly...
I saw and I was like ok ok ok.... I give up
I didn't know what to say....
I mean this guy is intimidating look. At least 6'3, maybe 240 of pure muscle (not bulky but he has a serious physique), brown, nice nice tight a$$, look like he would murder me in the ya know....
And me all 5'3, 110, petite self...like he might punch me in the face.
But its okMy friend (manager of the gym) is setting me up today to introduce us tomorrow.
I am sorry but I just can not do the cold approach on a guy. Its just not in me. Women are not cut out for that kind of assertiveness, are we?![]()
No stones here. I disagree that you should make the first move. He is a grown man after all, and from most of the posts in this thread, men his age don't beat about the bush or mess with your mind when it comes to showing what they want. He's already talked to the manager, let him take it further by talking to you. If he's as old as you described him to be I doubt if the woman making the move on him is acceptable to that generation like it is to ours (20s to early 30s).