Southernbella.
Well-Known Member
I under that ps is the key but when do you get to enjoy your hair?
I just hit WL and I don't PS. I wear my hair out everyday and I have retained length just fine. It's definitely possible!

My reggie:
I wash every 2-3 weeks. I try to deep condition with every wash. I use Sally's Silk Elements Moisturizing Shampoo and Silk Elements Olive Oil Deep Conditioner (green tub) to condition.
From there, I either wash no go, or blowdry using the tension method and style on stretched dry hair (braidouts and twistouts). I'd say I keep my hair stretched 95% of the time.
. I was the same way, I used to make my own hair products (from shampoo to styling aids), pre poo, deep condition, henna, wash twice a week etc. But these babies have been one of the motivating factors for me getting back to basics. Now I wash and set my curly hair once a week using the tightly curly method and let it air dry. During the week all I do to my hair is take it out of my braid in the morning, add some kind of moisturizer and go. At night I add a bit of safflower oil to my ends and put the braid back in. I spend all of 5 minutes a day on my hair Monday- Thursday and 2-3 hour on my hair on Friday (wash day). Terri LaFlesh saved my life 
. My newest addition does not sleep during the day save for a few cat naps here and there, and she is up every 3-4 hours at night
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