Your man in the strip club...

[breezy]

Maybe some look like that, but a lot of them look hot! We're talking about men here, ladies! A lot of men aren't looking at her face. They don't want a long term relationship, they just want some If her body looks good that's all the encouragement they need. It doesn't matter what the woman looks like. Men don't need much to make them cheat, why push them towards it. Keep him home!

You should make some Tshirts and keychains. KEEP THAT MAN AT HOME! Those things would sell like hotcakes!

 

[pebbles]

Hey, it's always fun to go to the club, see a show, then go home and put on your own....makes for a very fun night indeed!

That makes more sense. Give him a private show. What more could he want?

 

[Browndilocks]

Interesting. When I was in college, and even in my early 20's I didn't see anything wrong with it. Now that I'm in my late 20's, I do see a bit of a problem with it.

 

[pebbles]

You should make some T****s and keychains. KEEP THAT MAN AT HOME! Those things would sell like hotcakes!

LOL!!! I'm tempted!

 

[LocksOfLuV]

Maybe some look like that, but a lot of them look hot! We're talking about men here, ladies! A lot of men aren't looking at her face. They don't want a long term relationship, they just want some If her body looks good that's all the encouragement they need. It doesn't matter what the woman looks like. Men don't need much to make them cheat, why push them towards it. Keep him home!

Pebbles you are crazy! I agree that it don't take much to keep men, but obviously you've never seen a scrippa ! Them videos and movies got yall tricked! They look NOTHING like that.

 

[SUPER SWEET]

Yea, men will cheat with strippers, doctors, lawyers, fast food workers, secretaries, nurses, etc. How can a person be kept from cheating? Imo, if its in their heart then they will cheat no matter the scenario.

You got that right!
When my gf and I busted her man, the other woman was 400lbs, had a light mustache, not too clean and using a walker erplexed . So i saw first hand looks arent always the key to man stepping out.

 

[breezy]

Interesting. When I was in college, and even in my early 20's I didn't see anything wrong with it. Now that I'm in my late 20's, I do see a bit of a problem with it.

So do you guys think that as women get older they become more conservative? B/C I'll admit that at 21, I don't have a problem w/ a lot of things that my married friends in their 30s and 40s think are absolute no nos.

 

[pebbles]

Pebbles you are crazy! I agree that it don't take much to keep men, but obviously you've never seen a scrippa ! Them videos and movies got yall tricked! They look NOTHING like that.

No, I've never been to a strip club, but you know some men will sleep with anything that will lay still long enough for him to hit it. I say don't tempt the devil.

 

[LocksOfLuV]

You got that right!
When my gf and I busted her man, the other woman was 400lbs, had a light mustache, not too clean and using a walker erplexed . So i saw first hand looks arent always the key to man stepping out.

OOOH helll the the nawwww, I would have low self-esteem after that.

ewwww, she prolly was putting it DOWN too.

 

[breezy]

You got that right!
When my gf and I busted her man, the other woman was 400lbs, had a light mustache, not too clean and using a walker erplexed . So i saw first hand looks arent always the key to man stepping out.

Ok, you owe me some more Ice Tea...all over my screen right now! A mustache...are you serious?

 

[sprungonhairboards]

I guees I just havent dealt with guys that are into that. My last few boyfriends have all thought it's disgusting. The irony is, I could care less Not all the time but once in a while so what. I'm waaay too fine to be insecure!

 

[pebbles]

You got that right!
When my gf and I busted her man, the other woman was 400lbs, had a light mustache, not too clean and using a walker erplexed . So i saw first hand looks arent always the key to man stepping out.

Ya see!! Proves my point right there!!

 

[LocksOfLuV]

No, I've never been to a strip club, but you know some men will sleep with anything that will lay still long enough for him to hit it. I say don't tempt the devil.

Tru dat tru dat. Hopefully the devil won't be our SOs.

 

[breezy]

No, I've never been to a strip club, but you know some men will sleep with anything that will lay still long enough for him to hit it. I say don't tempt the devil.

But really that's a case of knowing your man, cuz a man who will screw anything that moves...especially any ugly thing, ain't worth my time anyway.

 

[alexstin]

Yeah, I agree with Pebs. There's no participation in the exploitation of women in this house. Do the guys that frequent strip clubs have no issue with their wife, daughter, mother or sister doing the same things they watch these ladies do?

 

[breezy]

I don't deal with guys that are into that. My last few boyfriends have all thought it's disgusting. The irony is, I could care less Not all the time but once in a while so what. I'm waaay too fine to be insecure!

Well gone head with your fine self!

 

[SexySin985]

You got that right!
When my gf and I busted her man, the other woman was 400lbs, had a light mustache, not too clean and using a walker erplexed . So i saw first hand looks arent always the key to man stepping out.

Awww, lawd I dunno why it's so funny but your post has me dying over here The 'walker' part is what set it off

 

[SUPER SWEET]

Ok, you owe me some more Ice Tea...all over my screen right now! A mustache...are you serious?

girl yea...I asked him what was the attraction because my gf was too stunned. He said she had pretty hair and was smarter than my friend

 

[breezy]

girl yea...I asked him what was the attraction because my gf was too stunned. He said she had pretty hair and was smarter than my friend

So...I know this might get me into trouble...but was she mixed? Was dude really Carmelo Anthony?

 

[alexstin]

I agree that it don't take much to keep men, but obviously you've never seen a scrippa ! Them videos and movies got yall tricked! They look NOTHING like that.

Okay, I'll take your word for it!

 

[pebbles]

girl yea...I asked him what was the attraction because my gf was too stunned. He said she had pretty hair and was smarter than my friend

What crud!! LOL!!

 

[LocksOfLuV]

Would anybody go as far to say that they are insecure and that's the reason you wouldn't allow your man to go?

 

[breezy]

Would anybody go as far to say that they are insecure and that's the reason you wouldn't allow your man to go?

Yeah..I'ma need to back away from you on account of your post being a lil too explosive for me

 

[CaramelMiSS]

I would not have a problem if it was once a year like for his birthday and I went with him just to drink or something. But one thing I won't allow is for him to throw money at these women, I can do the same thing and give you more so save your money to throw at me when we get home!

 

[SUPER SWEET]

So...I know this might get me into trouble...but was she mixed? Was dude really Carmelo Anthony?

She looked Hawaiian

 

[WhipEffectz1]

Would anybody go as far to say that they are insecure and that's the reason you wouldn't allow your man to go?

Huh bruh!?!? I wanna know that too!

 

[amberways]

I'm lucky that my husband thinks its demeaning.

Mine does too. He says it would be a waste of money, but if he wanted to go with his friends every now and then I wouldn't mind.(i think )

 

[moda]

I would have no problem with my husband going to a strip club if it were a rare occurrence, but on the regular it is just out of the question. I would even have a problem with him attending a regular club regularly, once you are married/ in a committed relationship all that needs to either stop or be done very rarely.

 

[Browndilocks]

So do you guys think that as women get older they become more conservative? B/C I'll admit that at 21, I don't have a problem w/ a lot of things that my married friends in their 30s and 40s think are absolute no nos.

I don't think it's a matter of becoming more conservative, but moreso being able to identify more clearly - the quality of the relationship you want. This also entails being able to identify & forecast things that may have a chance of hurting your relationship. I personally (being that I'm not married) believe that although people grow in different directions @ different speeds, there are certain things that a person should be able to grow out of. That's the part that does come with age and all the experience that extra years bring.

I'm sure you have plenty of experiences as a married mother that have influenced your way of thinking that I probably wouldn't understand myself. It's really about growth, and age isn't the only factor that can influence opinions that seems conservative and boring.

 

[LocksOfLuV]

I would have no problem with my husband going to a strip club if it were a rare occurrence, but on the regular it is just out of the question. I would even have a problem with him attending a regular club regularly, once you are married/ in a committed relationship all that needs to either stop or be done very rarely.

I really feel you.