janiebaby
Well-Known Member
start a new relationship?
In February, one of my oldest (in terms of length of time we've know each other) friends passed away in late Feb. She left behind a husband and children. She had battled a disease for as long as anyone knew her and it was just a matter of time.
Her husband and the rest of her family were about as mentally prepared as anyone could be. At the funeral her husband was very positive and comforting to my friend and I (we were all friends).
Fast forward to yesterday night, my friend tells me that the husband has moved on. There are multiple pictures of another woman on social networking sites and his status links him to being "in a relationship" with said woman.
So you know my friend has to keep digging and she saw something going back to May with the husband and the new woman. So of course, my friend is trying to figure out how long exactly have they known each other and how is it that the husband could move on so quickly.
I have my thoughts but I wanted to hear from you ladies how long you think you would hold off before settling into another relationship after your loved one passes? I'm not really looking for insight into the story above but I don't think too many folks will read this far down or follow directions (I know I don't) so ok![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
In February, one of my oldest (in terms of length of time we've know each other) friends passed away in late Feb. She left behind a husband and children. She had battled a disease for as long as anyone knew her and it was just a matter of time.
Her husband and the rest of her family were about as mentally prepared as anyone could be. At the funeral her husband was very positive and comforting to my friend and I (we were all friends).
Fast forward to yesterday night, my friend tells me that the husband has moved on. There are multiple pictures of another woman on social networking sites and his status links him to being "in a relationship" with said woman.
So you know my friend has to keep digging and she saw something going back to May with the husband and the new woman. So of course, my friend is trying to figure out how long exactly have they known each other and how is it that the husband could move on so quickly.
I have my thoughts but I wanted to hear from you ladies how long you think you would hold off before settling into another relationship after your loved one passes? I'm not really looking for insight into the story above but I don't think too many folks will read this far down or follow directions (I know I don't) so ok
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)