YALL Have 20 Mins To Convince Me Not To...

[runwaydream]

:::sigh:::

I think it's pretty clear. I'm trying to walk a pretty fine line w/this "FWB" thing. Granted, I know I have no businesss doing this but... I just want somebody to hang out with. But a little more. But not too much more. And guys always need a clear illustration of these things. I don't know.

I told my really good friend about it, and she was dying of laughter bc shes 100% convinced that Im not going to go thru w/it. I don't know.

We'll see.

You really think it's THAT bad ? I didn't really think so. But despite my lifestyle, I've never been the inhibited type

ill be honest.. when i read it i was very surprised. one b/c you said you were a Christian so i was expecting something a little more modest (not judging at all) and also b/c ..forgive me but.. you sound kind of.. promiscuous? (dont hit me) im just keepin it real. my jaw literally DROPPED. however i AM known to be a bit of a prude so.. but yea.. i think u should revise it. DEFINITELY. you dont sound like a lady.. so the guys who contact you arent going to expect you to be one, consequently, when u go out on dates with them you wont be treated as one.

 

[berry87]

I think soo too! It was just a bit too blunt! JMHO Good luck and be careful!

Do you want my honest opinion? YES. I think you should revise it. You don't need to go into that much detail about what you're looking for ie a freind with benefits. If that's what you want, that's not had to have. But obviously with that kind of post, you're going to attract some guys who will fill in the blanks and get another idea. JMHO.

 

[Theo]

Well, you're an adult and you're going to do what you want. To me, it seems like you have a pretty good sense of what you're looking for, and you're making moves to get it... whatever it is.

I do think you REALLY need to be careful, especially given what you said about your current living situation. And you're going to get a range of responses, but I think toning it down a bit will give you some more conservative feedback. I mean, you can always say no to someone if you don't want to see them again, and you can always build from somewhere. You don't have to tell all your info from the first date or from your post on CL. A little bit of mystery and uncertainty is fun.