Why was he the best you ever had?

[meesch]

Think back to the best sex you ever had... what would you say was the biggest contributing factor?

my top 3:

1. our chemistry was insane... we really "got" each other when it came to sex. plus, i love love loved how he knew how to play to the male gender role in the most effective way to compliment me in a female gender role
2. based on sheer skill alone... i had absolutely NO romantic feelings for him, the boy was just talented
3. i was woefully obsessed with him (even though he was moderately skilled i feel as if the obsession was the more powerful factor)

 

[BGT]

He's given me better orgasms then I've ever given myself. Oh yeah, we're also in love so there's that.

 

[BrownBetty]

He was nasty as hayle
Willing to try anything at anytime
My pleasure was his pleasure, I mean really!
There was an orgasm minimum when we got together,"I need you to come at least 2x before I consider putting it in, get on it..."
And I loved him.... lol

 

[brown_skin_poppin]

Oh dear I wish I had this lol. Ive only had 1 bf we were together for almost 3 years and I had to fake it EVERY TIME !!!

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[CurlyMoo]

I chose other because so far, I'm the best I've ever had. erplexed

 

[keenyme]

all of the above... except for the love and money.

 

[Britt]

The best I've ever had was oddly my first high school love and someone in my early 20s. Some men r just way more intuned with a woman's body and know there is not a one way that works for everyone. Now that I look back, I think I've had some average sex. I wish my current SO were the best since ill likely marry him but .... Hmmm...we'll need work on that. I don't like that at all. I don't know how to 'teach' a man.

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[PittGirl06]

Lol. I have only been with two guys and neither were particularly good. #2 was great with his tongue though. #1 was better at kissing. Neither were good at sticking and moving. I can count on one hand the number of times I climaxes between them. :-/

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[SmileyNY]

He's had a huge... heart

*clears throat* We also laughed a lot together. That was nice, too


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[PeaceFlow]

Oh dear I wish I had this lol. Ive only had 1 bf we were together for almost 3 years and I had to fake it EVERY TIME !!!

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I think with a new man you should always figure each other out and be honest about the way you like to be touched etc.. makes a difference.

 

[MizzBrown]

I can barely put it into words.

Its true that good sex has you losing your mind because I surely did.

It was good EVERY SINGLE time. Spontaneous too. Park bench, car, stairs, kitchen floor, didn't matter. His kiss would make me wet. Just a damn kiss. And we could kiss for a LONG time. I could be mad as hell and he knew that if he kissed me, i'd give in & i'd try to fight his kiss.

I only orgasmed once because I am not a woman that orgasms during sex. Only 30% do. Just great sex. He wasn't shy about his body or trying new things, and took control.

I just cant explain how good he was. I still fantasize to this day and its been a few years. And he'd tire me out. I was always amazed at how long he could go & how many times. "You ready yet?" Me: "can I sleep this one off first! Damn!"

 

[Okay]

He was nasty as hayle
Willing to try anything at anytime
My pleasure was his pleasure, I mean really!
There was an orgasm minimum when we got together,"I need you to come at least 2x before I consider putting it in, get on it..."
And I loved him.... lol

Damn : Lick:

 

[meesch]

Damn : Lick:

i actually dont like that. i prefer to save it/build it up so that it can happen during penetration. the guy im with now always insists on "teasing" me and im trying to break him of that because theres no guarantee that after im done im not going to want everything to stop, or that i wont fall asleep. ill be like NO, you need to do it NOW quit playing with me and im not joking guys dont like to get theirs before the actual sex so why do they think we want it that way either? the only time im ok with it is when its and even then its because the excursion becomes like, a session rather than sex.

 

[PretteePlease]

his foreplay made me melt
like a champ
At 160lbs he had no problem picking me up while coloring
Super Sharpie marker
hooked forward like if he was looking down it would be looking at him
he talked cash ish during but not too much then he talked sweet then more ish talking
he moved his hips
he didn't just focus on one thing I felt like he had 8 hands
he always showered with me after and then snuggled up with me in the bed

hell i want to make a phone call that ish he did to me has to be illegal in at least 4 states It was so good i'd clip his toenails with my teeth

eta EVEN KNOWING THE POMPUS EGOTISTICAL SCAM ARTIST THAT HE IS I WOULD DROP EVERYTHING AND DRIVE TO DALLAS IN A HEARTBEAT TO EXPERIENCE THAT ISH AGAIN I THINK IT WAS DIPPED IN METH!

I was and still might be DICKMATIZED this is why i am currently celibate

 

[MzLady78]

Aside from leaving me satisfied every.single.time (I can't have orgasms from penetration, so he was a master at using alternative measures ), there was a passion and intensity when we were together that I hadn't experienced with anyone else.

It might sound corny, but he was the only person I ever felt really "made love" to me, if you know what I mean. That's how we referred to it, and that's what it felt like.

 

[Oasis]

i knew i shoulda kept my black *** out of this thread.

 

[kandake]

1. His skills were amazing. He knew the female body better than I know my own body. He was the largest man I've been with but it NEVER hurt. He was gentle, deliberate and patient. I'm not sure what he was doing to me but I loved it.

2. We had some serious sexual chemistry. His skills weren't the best but for whatever reason it was always great.

3. We never really had actual sex cause dude had some impotency issues. So of course he'd honed his oral skills. That ish was freaking amazing and he could go on forever.

 

[mallysmommy]

i knew i shoulda kept my black *** out of this thread.

ahha indeed me too...i'm taking my exit NOW!

 

[Nubenap22]

Wow I love this thread!!

Hmmmm the best I eva...EVA!

Our chemistry
We stimulated each others mind...then did the hibitty dibbity
The way he caressed
His size was like perfect!! Hes still my weakness ......after 5 years
And he can go more than once a night.....amen

 

[allmundjoi]

1. Love-greatest love of my life.
2. Chemistry-was great before we fell in love, after love? He could look at me and my kitty kat purred and I YEARNED, no ACHED to touch him.
3. Attention to detail/4play-he gave every inch of my body attention. He always watched my face to gage my reaction.
4. His smell- he had this sweet musky smell that drove me absolutely bonkers. Made me like a cat in heat.
5. His body-Amazing, well muscled. I could teach anatomy using his body. He was my workout buddy too.
6. Moustache/Goatee-he used it to tickle my body with it. Whew...flashbacks!

 

[Natty_Virgo]

We had the best chemistry in bed mannnnn it was just sex though I didn't even want to stick around when it was done and he would always complain so it didn't last long but mannnnnnn

 

[CherryCherryBoomBoom]

Oh gosh, I feel so left out here being a virgin

 

[meesch]

more people consider their best sex with someone who gave good than someone they were deeply in love with

 

[stephluv]

1. Love-greatest love of my life.
2. Chemistry-was great before we fell in love, after love? He could look at me and my kitty kat purred and I YEARNED, no ACHED to touch him.
3. Attention to detail/4play-he gave every inch of my body attention. He always watched my face to gage my reaction.
4. His smell- he had this sweet musky smell that drove me absolutely bonkers. Made me like a cat in heat.
5. His body-Amazing, well muscled. I could teach anatomy using his body. He was my workout buddy too.
6. Moustache/Goatee-he used it to tickle my body with it. Whew...flashbacks!

why did this have me fantazing like i knew him

 

[allmundjoi]

more people consider their best sex with someone who gave good than someone they were deeply in love with

LOL, see and that does NOTHING for me. Each time I would tell a guy that they would take that as a personal challenge. LOL. And each time they failed. The girls (my teddies) are they key-they say up to 5% (1% per Kinsey) of females can achieve the Big O with stimulation of them. *raises hand*

why did this have me fantazing like i knew him

LOL.

 

[meesch]

LOL, see and that does NOTHING for me. Each time I would tell a guy that they would take that as a personal challenge. LOL. And each time they failed. The girls (my teddies) are they key-they say up to 5% (1% per Kinsey) of females can achieve the Big O with stimulation of them. *raises hand*

Hmmmmm that's interesting. It's only just recently that mine even started serving any purpose at all lol... they never used to get the job done or start the engines before. Now they are a hot spot

 

[calmsensual1]

The best I ever had was with my husband (praise the Lord). And the main reason is cause the majority of the time he doesn't ejaculate. He only ejaculates when he wants to, which is our birth control.

He never has issues going back to back or all night because of this. It's incredible. And when he pulls out to try and stop the flow of semen from coming out it is SO sexy. Just seeing that a man can actually have that much control over his crayon is just super sexy. I can't get enough.

 

[MD_Lady]

more people consider their best sex with someone who gave good than someone they were deeply in love with

*raises hand* My opinion of someone's skills has never been helped or hurt by the presence or absence of love or a committed relationship. For me, skill is skill.

 

[Evolving78]

we had crazy chemistry
his foreplay was off the chain, to the point he would have me begging for it
he was so sexy, he voice was a turn on
he was very skilled. he didn't rush, he could be aggressive, but gentle all at the same time...

 

[Evolving78]

man, i wanna ask something so bad...