i like posting here because i'm trying to find a regimen that works for my transitioning hair. at first, i joined lchf so i could see the other forums folks were talkin bout. i got caught up in OT and ET sometimes, and a lot of the things said in there are so mean and ridiculous. i found myself absorbing more of the behaviors of the other posters, and becoming a mean girl, and i didn't like it. so now i stay away. i don't want to be that person that always has something negative to say, and thrives on making other people look bad and point out flaws constantly. i don't like negativity and tearing down of other women, and it was just dragging me down. i like it here because the women are nicer and more supportive.