About children...for all the talk about out-of-wedlock births and the hysteria it brings out , people don't seem to get the clear evidence that many kids born w/in wedlock and raised in two parent homes are essentially being raised in a single PARENT home. Why so I say that? Many men simply refuse to parent be they married, LTR. divorced (whether they were married or not), etc....many guys wanna be Santadaddy and leave the work of parenting to the mothers. They reap the love and the benefits, the women get the grief (and love too ).
Of course both men and women are at fault for this, BUT society backs this state of affairs way too often. Why is a man somehow less responsible for his children tho he's not/no longer in the family home? I'm not just talking money either.
(NB...this is rather culturally specific to the US...about elsewhere, I won't speak on the mater due to lack of personal experiences.)
Of course both men and women are at fault for this, BUT society backs this state of affairs way too often. Why is a man somehow less responsible for his children tho he's not/no longer in the family home? I'm not just talking money either.
(NB...this is rather culturally specific to the US...about elsewhere, I won't speak on the mater due to lack of personal experiences.)
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