happycakes
Well-Known Member
Just getting back from McDonalds (I know I know - not good for me) anyway while I was there I went to pick up some napkins - well I caught a white male staring at me so I smile (just a little though as I could see in the corner of my eye that he had a black co-worker sitting at the table with him) then I hear his black co-worker say something about "yeah, but I don't like them weaves". I wish I would have went over there and whisper my number in that white's guy ear - just to tick his friend off.
However, I just pretended like I didn't hear his comment and walked on out. But my thing is if you're not interested in me why try to keep the white guy from finding me attractive.
I live in Chicago and I swear over half of our black males are dating white women. I'm fine with that because I'm dating a white guy and I don't find it an issue anymore - so to each his own. I just find it soooo insulting to have our men constantly trying to bring our property value down. I don't know of any other race of men that do that to their own women in public like that.
I just had to rant about this as this is why I have my own issues with our black men. I sometimes find it hard to even look them in the eye because they have become so judgemental of us.
Has this happen to anyone else? What's going to become of us in the near future? Who's going to find us attractive if our own white collar men are constantly speaking bad about us?
Ladies it's going to be up to us to raise a better generation of men. I just fear for our little girls' future. What else can we do?
However, I just pretended like I didn't hear his comment and walked on out. But my thing is if you're not interested in me why try to keep the white guy from finding me attractive.
I live in Chicago and I swear over half of our black males are dating white women. I'm fine with that because I'm dating a white guy and I don't find it an issue anymore - so to each his own. I just find it soooo insulting to have our men constantly trying to bring our property value down. I don't know of any other race of men that do that to their own women in public like that.
I just had to rant about this as this is why I have my own issues with our black men. I sometimes find it hard to even look them in the eye because they have become so judgemental of us.
Has this happen to anyone else? What's going to become of us in the near future? Who's going to find us attractive if our own white collar men are constantly speaking bad about us?
Ladies it's going to be up to us to raise a better generation of men. I just fear for our little girls' future. What else can we do?