Who else is in an IRL now?

Do you date interracially?

  • I'm an International Lover

    Votes: 184 63.7%

  • I've tried it but not my thing

    Votes: 16 5.5%

  • I haven't dabbled yet but I'd consider it

    Votes: 67 23.2%

  • I don't want to mess up my gene pool

    Votes: 22 7.6%
  • Total voters
    289
I dont discriminate, if I like him, I'll date him.

I've been with a Grenadian guy, a columbian, and my 1st (and still currently lingering) love is half puerto rican/half dominican. I'll take whatever comes my way, as long as there's genuine interest/feelings and the possibility of something special (like love!) behind it :)
 
im currently dating one filipino and "talking" to a half thai/half yt dude, which will prob turn into dating soon. i've also gone out w. a chinese guy but wasnt interested. he's recently tried to talk to me again. and there's a korean dude i keep talking to on and off. he's SOO sexy, but dude has some emotional issues. i wanna go out w. a hispanic guy next. im not interested in yt guys at all but i might go on a date w. one just to see what its like..

i still hope to marry blk tho :grin:
 
I would love to date other races but I'm never really approached by men of other races. And the ones that have hit on me were corn balls! I don't care what race he is, but my Future SO has to have mad swag! I consider myself approachable, I smile a lot. Black men approach me all day & night.

Do you ladies have any advice for me?
 
I would LOVE to date interracially. I've been approached by other races/ethnicities (white, Puerto Rican, Dominican, Japanese) while in college in NY but I was just too low self-esteem among other things to really date anyone at that time. I live in Atlanta now and it's really hard to date interracially here because of the high population of blacks in the city and the self-imposed segregation.
 
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I've only ever had one boyfriend, when I was 16, and he was white. I've been attracted to different races and I've never really thought about them being different, just being a hot guy, lol. Damn, I'm not really attracting any more men at the moment though :(
 
softblackcotton said:
I would LOVE to date interracially. I've been approached by other races/ethnicities (white, Puerto Rican, Dominican, Japanese) while in college in NY but I was just too low self-esteem among other things to really date anyone at that time. I live in Atlanta now and it's really hard to date interracially here because of the high population of blacks in the city and the self-imposed segregation.
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I live in the atl area and I see a fair amount of Interracial dating. More often bm with others but I see the reverse too. But isn't that how it usually is.
 
I'm date globally as well. Currently I'm dating a beautiful guy who is 1/2 Puerto Rican and 1/2 Dominican. Love him to death...I love hispanic men. I have no clue what's gonna happen when I move to TX cause my SO doesn't like that idea, but he knew what he was signing up for when he met me. I'm a woman on the move and you either gotta move with me or get left behind at this point in my life....we'll see.
 
Riverrock said:
I live in the atl area and I see a fair amount of Interracial dating. More often bm with others but I see the reverse too. But isn't that how it usually is.
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I guess it's me then. I admit I don't get out much and when I do get out it's mostly to events/places/areas mainly frequented by black people. I honestly don't like the majority of black men here. It mostly has nothing to do with looks, but demeanor/overall mindset of them. I would LOVE to date and marry interracially if God willing. I believe I get along better with men of other races from my experiences. Since living here I briefly talked to and went out on a couple of dates with two white men so far. Even though things didn't work out with them because they were jerks; they treated me better in general than black men I've gone out with down here. I'm not being biased, that's just the truth in my experience.
 
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Current BF is half Russian Jew, half WASP, all white though. His family has been refreshingly reaction-free as far as I can see. I think they're just happy he has a girlfriend after a long dry spell. LOL

@ softblackcotton

I do agree that for some off reason, the white men I have dated usually treat me better than Black men I have dated. Even if they were ultimately a--holes, they were clearly trained to at least be a gentleman on the surface.
 
Dated Hispanic, and white.

Had crushes on some Asian guy in my History class in college....lol. Like you said, ppl are ppl. They all pee standing up, get on your nerves, and are just fun to be around--a guy is a guy is a GUY--regardless of colour. :)
 
I've dated from almost every continent except for Africa and South America.... hmmm gotta work on that, not wait..... I talked to this African guy... so just South America is left... oh snap and Australian!
 
Erm, the guy that's into me right now is a White guy from Nebraska. Dunno if it will go anywhere with all my issues, but he's one of my closer friends. Under normal circumstances I'd have gotten with him a loooong time ago.
 
MzK said:
Dated Hispanic, and white.

Had crushes on some Asian guy in my History class in college....lol. Like you said, ppl are ppl. They all pee standing up, get on your nerves, and are just fun to be around--a guy is a guy is a GUY--regardless of colour. :)
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I'm told German men frequently pee sitting down. :giggle: I do remember hearing that some places men sit. :lol:
 
Likeyouneverseenme said:
I look at all my relationships as IRL because I'm all kinds of mixed.
My SO is African-American and I'm Norwegian by nationality and part white, part African, part Indian and part Lebanese.
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Sounds like such a beautiful mix :yep:.

I'm kinda curious to see what you look like now :look:.

Not in a creepy way, but your ethnicity is truly one of a kind!
 
Lately I've been getting approached by men of other races although nothing's worked out yet I actually prefer dating interracially. The world is full of so much diversity to limit yourself!
 
It's funny I cam across this thread.

I have not dated interracially, but I had a super crush on this Italian guy in HS. We used to flirt like nobody's business, he used to kiss me on the neck and all that...lol
But I feel like his friends and/or fam would give him hell. I still talk to him on fb, we still cool, but I miss how he used to hold my hand...lol

I tried to do the online dating thing, and funny I mostly got matched with Caucasian or Euro men, and they would be the ones to send me a nudge or whatever.

I would like to be in an IRL. I really really do. I just have not found a black man who is right for me, or rather had a relationship that worked out. I mean a nan is a man, but I think there is definitely a difference in how they go about relationships. But I think it would be an experience. Ultimately I don't care what race he is as long as the compatibility and chemistry is there.

Ladies who are in IRL...how did you meet your guy? Where there any "issues" you had to deal with?
 
I'm dating a white guy. First time dating white. I met him a few weeks ago when I backed into his parked car. He is irish american and is very affectionate. He seems very interested so we will see how this works out. I think he's a great guy so far, especially since his 2010 fusion has a huge dent in it and he was so calm about it, i was on the verge of tears and he was worried about ME.
 
I've had only one boyfriend and he was German. And a jerk tbh!
I prefer white (esp Euro), Latino and Indian.
I'm not attracted to Asian men.

I would love to marry outside of my race. Black men are cool, but there's just something about white boys that I love. I wouldn't say they're necessarily going to treat you better because a jerk is a jerk. But, I just find myself more physically attracted to white/indian men.
I've been approached by men of all races, but I'm waiting for the one God personally sends my way.<3
 
NaturalDetroit said:
I'm dating a white guy. First time dating white. I met him a few weeks ago when I backed into his parked car. He is irish american and is very affectionate. He seems very interested so we will see how this works out. I think he's a great guy so far, especially since his 2010 fusion has a huge dent in it and he was so calm about it, i was on the verge of tears and he was worried about ME.
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:lachen::lachen::lachen: Sorry. What a way to meet, I could see this in my head, like a movie or something. What a nice man he is. :yep:
 
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