daniemoy
New Member
I got two boyfriends name Joel. One is white (5 years) and one is black (10 years). I call them WJ and BJ. I was never really the one for marriage since I focus so much on my career. I am 27 now and both are ring shopping. I am so confused. Both are great. This is what I am confused about. I am ready to settle down, but since I've been dating both forever I don't know how to be with one man anymore. For two years now I've been doing long distance with both of them. I need to know should I leave both alone and find someone new or pick one and settle down. This is crazy, I know. Back in the good old days all my friends thought I had the best of both worlds. Now I feel like I am stretching myself thin. Flying out of town every weekend just ain't cutting it. WJ, is a musician/ songwriter with $$$ and the same get rich or die trying aspirations as myself. BJ, is a blue collar working man who wants a family house and picket fence. Its coming down to the wire ladies. I think Christmas may bring two proposals. I am in trouble. What do I do