faithVA
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Excellent points faithVA.
Actually, the first signs of her use and abuse of this man was her OUTRIGHT refusal to check bio dad on child support and putting the financial burden on stepdad. Taking the CS would have enhanced all their lives. Hint 2 was her not working to help support her own kids on top of refusing to push CS.
The bolded shows her manipulation tactics. The mom is sick and has raised some sick kids. And you're right. This mess didnt show up overnight. However, the man was in love. And sometimes when we're in love we do foolish things, ignoring the signs.
A decent mother would be all over that daughter to change it up to how it should be. But she is not a decent wife, much less mother.
I agree. I agree we do ignore the signs. We also believe that if we treat people well they will reciprocate. The new husband is going to have his hands full as well.