TinyBlu
Well-Known Member
...and please don't say church. I grew up in church and found the church boys to be some of the worst behaving brothers of all, and I am not a religious person. I would prefer not to even go there.
As I try to re-enter the dating scene after a hiatus, I am so disappointed in the lack of men of color where I would normally look.
It is my belief that the best way to connect with someone with whom you share similar interests is to actually engage in those things and see who shows up... No dice. I've been to bookstores, coffee shops, lounges (the few black men there were entertaining the white women), happy hours in the business district, physical fitness events, etc. All I see is old white men and/or young white men. With the exception of the lounge afore mentioned, there hasn't even been a brother in sight!
I'm not totally opposed to dating outside my race, but my preference would still be a black man. I don't want to believe the statistics on the shortage of quality men in their 30's and 40's. They can't ALL be married, with white women, gay or in prison...
Surely I'm just looking in the wrong places. I'm open to suggestions. Thanks!
As I try to re-enter the dating scene after a hiatus, I am so disappointed in the lack of men of color where I would normally look.
It is my belief that the best way to connect with someone with whom you share similar interests is to actually engage in those things and see who shows up... No dice. I've been to bookstores, coffee shops, lounges (the few black men there were entertaining the white women), happy hours in the business district, physical fitness events, etc. All I see is old white men and/or young white men. With the exception of the lounge afore mentioned, there hasn't even been a brother in sight!
I'm not totally opposed to dating outside my race, but my preference would still be a black man. I don't want to believe the statistics on the shortage of quality men in their 30's and 40's. They can't ALL be married, with white women, gay or in prison...
Surely I'm just looking in the wrong places. I'm open to suggestions. Thanks!