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se ven las caras pero nunca el corazón
Background:
My bachelor neighbor next door is a divorced man with a child that lives with his mother. I learned this when he moved in and he came over to meet us. He's got a girlfriend who comes over all the time on Fridays and by our schedules, I'm always seeing her arrive on Fridays in her Jeep. Then Sunday mornings, I see her car leave. I'm minding my business, y'all...but when I have things to do is when I spot her. I'd rather not, she gave me the evil eye when I had to trim the bushes and I cleaned up what fell on his side. She went running to tell him. It was a non-issue but I sensed she wanted it to be.
I don't know if he goes to hers nor what her own family dynamics are. I just know that she's his girlfriend and that they sex each other up because she got into an argument and in our quiet, proper neighborhood, looked for attention one day while we were outside ...she saw us then yelled, "Thanks B. for the good sex last night...blah, blah, blah,.." then sped off in her vehicle. We don't need to know that info. But now that at least 4 of us neighbors know her business, why is she seemingly going over his place all the time? Late evening, his lights are on...bedroom faces my garage and I see him every time I leave...even see him inside. It's kinda awkward when I have to warm up my car. White folks don't like curtains nor shades much lol. But I figure that she's making the effort.
But to the point, isn't that a booty call relationship that will not progress if a guy expects you to come over his house for sex? I'm just wondering because I remember when that was frowned upon. Maybe that's what they want. But I'd feel some kinda way and I'm always going over his house and then get pissed and speed off every now and then. It just seems...she's not respected much. This a thing now? If a man asks you out and you're coming to pick him up always or having to meet him on his turf...?
My bachelor neighbor next door is a divorced man with a child that lives with his mother. I learned this when he moved in and he came over to meet us. He's got a girlfriend who comes over all the time on Fridays and by our schedules, I'm always seeing her arrive on Fridays in her Jeep. Then Sunday mornings, I see her car leave. I'm minding my business, y'all...but when I have things to do is when I spot her. I'd rather not, she gave me the evil eye when I had to trim the bushes and I cleaned up what fell on his side. She went running to tell him. It was a non-issue but I sensed she wanted it to be.
I don't know if he goes to hers nor what her own family dynamics are. I just know that she's his girlfriend and that they sex each other up because she got into an argument and in our quiet, proper neighborhood, looked for attention one day while we were outside ...she saw us then yelled, "Thanks B. for the good sex last night...blah, blah, blah,.." then sped off in her vehicle. We don't need to know that info. But now that at least 4 of us neighbors know her business, why is she seemingly going over his place all the time? Late evening, his lights are on...bedroom faces my garage and I see him every time I leave...even see him inside. It's kinda awkward when I have to warm up my car. White folks don't like curtains nor shades much lol. But I figure that she's making the effort.
But to the point, isn't that a booty call relationship that will not progress if a guy expects you to come over his house for sex? I'm just wondering because I remember when that was frowned upon. Maybe that's what they want. But I'd feel some kinda way and I'm always going over his house and then get pissed and speed off every now and then. It just seems...she's not respected much. This a thing now? If a man asks you out and you're coming to pick him up always or having to meet him on his turf...?
but it was a thought about that type of relationship dynamic. What I'm saying/asking....IS THIS HOW PEOPLE DATE THESE DAYS? It's not the first time I've heard of such. I'm giving an example of such with a little background. Do women find it ok to go to the man's place all the time, esp. for sleeping over? In serious relationships, does this occur or is this simply friends with benefits when a couple plans everything around him and his space? It used to be frowned upon. She was just an example...an irritating one, mind you, but just an example.
