What's The Worst Conversation You've Had With A Man You've Just Met?

[nerdography]

I was in college, and there was this burger place that I'd stop by on my walk home from school sometimes.

So, this guy that worked in the back as a fry cook would usually hand me my food. And he would say hello and I'd say hello back. That was literally the entirety of our conversations. One day I was walking back to my apartment and he saw me and said hello, I'm guess he was on his break. I said hello back and started to continue on my way. As I'm passing him he said "When are you going to let me have sex with you?"

After that I didn't go there anymore, which sucks because their food was good.

 

[giigii613]

It was like the week that trump got elected so WP were feeling themselves. One guy asked me if I had kids. When I answered no, he said "that's too bad cause I'd totally leave you as a single mother"

My mouth dropped open after reading this one. How did you respond?

 

[CurlyMoo]

I worked at Walgreens, it was my college job so I could get through school. You are required to welcome in every guest, it was my job. I welcome this 40 year old man.
Him: You're to pretty to work here
Me: -half smile and nod-

Him: So what do you do besides work here?

Me: I'm in school

Him: Oh yeah like makeup school?

Me: No I-( he cuts me off)

Him: So like hair school?

Me:No I-(he cuts me off AGAIN)

Him: oh okay so you're in school to learn how to do nails and stuff

Me: NO

Him: So what the hell you in school for?!

Me: Computer Science and Engineering

Him: oh so you think you're smart huh?
Me: I KNOW I'm smart
Him: You need to stop studying that dumb stuff and come hang with me. What's your number

Me: leave me the hell alone

Him: I guess going to school made you a witch

Me:

Boy that conversation STILL pisses me off to this day

You should have asked if he was paying for your company

 

[KEWLKAT103]

This thread is funny and sad!
There's been many but a quick one happened when I was about 8 months pregnant.
I was walking to my car and a man called out to me "Dang girl, you look like you about to pop open like a sunflower seed!"
I don't think I even said anything, just looked at him, shook my head and kept it moving.

 

[Shiks]

I have so many!
1. A guy comes up to me and licks his lips and says the man that sleeps next to me is lucky as all get out
2. A construction guy told me if he was clean he would take me on a date
3. A man tried to say hi,I ignored him and he said he didn't want me anyway with my behind like a horse
4. A Nigerian man said I was as pretty as a mermaid. That made me laugh because he said I would kill him.

 

[giigii613]

I have so many!
1. A guy comes up to me and licks his lips and says the man that sleeps next to me is lucky as all get out
2. A construction guy told me if he was clean he would take me on a date
3. A man tried to say hi,I ignored him and he said he didn't want me anyway with my behind like a horse
4. A Nigerian man said I was as pretty as a mermaid. That made me laugh because he said I would kill him.

Lol when I first read it I thought well at least he is being honest about his STI status.

 

[Mai Tai]

The worst interaction I ever had with a man is when this dude threatened to kill me if I got off on his bus stop. I was in high school and my best friend and I were just trying to get to the mall. He saw us get on the bus and as soon as we sat down he moved seats to the one right behind us.

He proceeded to try and flirt with us both and when we both turned him down he very loudly and graphically went on a tirade about how if we get off on his stop he was going to kidnap, torture and murder us. Not one person on that bus came to our defense and the bus driver did nothing to remove him even though we were clearly in danger.

His stop finally came up and luckily it was not our stop which even if it were we were NOT getting off that bus. He gets up and while exiting he turns around, flashes a knife, and yells "So ya'll getting off?!"

Worst day of my life!

 

[MzLady78]

The worst interaction I ever had with a man is when this dude threatened to kill me if I got off on his bus stop. I was in high school and my best friend and I were just trying to get to the mall. He saw us get on the bus and as soon as we sat down he moved seats to the one right behind us.

He proceeded to try and flirt with us both and when we both turned him down he very loudly and graphically went on a tirade about how if we get off on his stop he was going to kidnap, torture and murder us. Not one person on that bus came to our defense and the bus driver did nothing to remove him even though we were clearly in danger.

His stop finally came up and luckily it was not our stop which even if it were we were NOT getting off that bus. He gets up and while exiting he turns around, flashes a knife, and yells "So ya'll getting off?!"

Worst day of my life!

OMG, how scary!

It really is tough being a woman.

 

[oneastrocurlie]

I was standing outside of my baby shower after it was over watching everyone load my car...this dude pulled up and said "you're beautiful, you want a real man" and everyone looked around confused. He said "I'm talking to you" and I said I'm 7 months pregnant and this is baby shower. He looked confused and said "you need a real man" and we were looking at him like

Hilarrrrious

 

[giigii613]

The worst interaction I ever had with a man is when this dude threatened to kill me if I got off on his bus stop. I was in high school and my best friend and I were just trying to get to the mall. He saw us get on the bus and as soon as we sat down he moved seats to the one right behind us.

He proceeded to try and flirt with us both and when we both turned him down he very loudly and graphically went on a tirade about how if we get off on his stop he was going to kidnap, torture and murder us. Not one person on that bus came to our defense and the bus driver did nothing to remove him even though we were clearly in danger.

His stop finally came up and luckily it was not our stop which even if it were we were NOT getting off that bus. He gets up and while exiting he turns around, flashes a knife, and yells "So ya'll getting off?!"

Worst day of my life!

what in the world?!

 

[kimpaur]

Eta: conversation for another thread

 

[CoilyFields]

Most recent:

It was a pretty simple request for my number...just the who, what, and where was crazy.

I was overseeing a table for my (non-profit) companies services at a public fair. My staff was doing intakes at the table (about 6 people at a time with a long line behind them). I jumped in to help and someone passed me a clients intake form to check. The client calls down the length of the table and tells me that while I'm looking at his form to get his number from it and put it in my phone and then pulls out his flip phone and says "and then give me yours so I can take your beautiful self out". I politely refused, but he kept at it...in front of all the other clients and my staff!

I had to pull on ALL of my training to keep from giving a slick reply! Not only was he a client...but he was white...and old...and sickly...and homeless! And looka lika scarecrow!

But for real, it was funny cuz he was so smooth and confident with it I almost thought he was a bonafide Black man! I detested his appeal but appreciated his gangsta lol. How you got swag and asthma? How you gonna take me out while my company is writing you a check for your next meal?

 

[giigii613]

Most recent:

It was a pretty simple request for my number...just the who, what, and where was crazy.

I was overseeing a table for my (non-profit) companies services at a public fair. My staff was doing intakes at the table (about 6 people at a time with a long line behind them). I jumped in to help and someone passed me a clients intake form to check. The client calls down the length of the table and tells me that while I'm looking at his form to get his number from it and put it in my phone and then pulls out his flip phone and says "and then give me yours so I can take your beautiful self out". I politely refused, but he kept at it...in front of all the other clients and my staff!

I had to pull on ALL of my training to keep from giving a slick reply! Not only was he a client...but he was white...and old...and sickly...and homeless! And looka lika scarecrow!

But for real, it was funny cuz he was so smooth and confident with it I almost thought he was a bonafide Black man! I detested his appeal but appreciated his gangsta lol. How you got swag and asthma? How you gonna take me out while my company is writing you a check for your next meal?

I'm loving these stories!

 

[PJaye]

Most recent:

It was a pretty simple request for my number...just the who, what, and where was crazy.

I was overseeing a table for my (non-profit) companies services at a public fair. My staff was doing intakes at the table (about 6 people at a time with a long line behind them). I jumped in to help and someone passed me a clients intake form to check. The client calls down the length of the table and tells me that while I'm looking at his form to get his number from it and put it in my phone and then pulls out his flip phone and says "and then give me yours so I can take your beautiful self out". I politely refused, but he kept at it...in front of all the other clients and my staff!

I had to pull on ALL of my training to keep from giving a slick reply! Not only was he a client...but he was white...and old...and sickly...and homeless! And looka lika scarecrow!

But for real, it was funny cuz he was so smooth and confident with it I almost thought he was a bonafide Black man! I detested his appeal but appreciated his gangsta lol. How you got swag and asthma? How you gonna take me out while my company is writing you a check for your next meal?

Flip phone?!

 

[Topsido]

While I was in a store by the deep freezer, this BM approached me. He started talking but I didn't really pay attention and I just kept giving a 1 syllable answers. Then he goes, psssss. I looked up and he handed me his phone telling to put my number in real quick. I looked around me and saw a small bin. I just dropped the phone in the bin and walked away. It was until I got in my car that I realized I did that on instinct.


I needed an expact immigration advice for a complicated situation I was dealing with. So this white lawyer came highly recommended. He handles off the cuff immigration stuff. I called him and booked an appointment. €200 for 1 hour.

I'm sitting across from him but he kept looking at me like I was dinner. He came and sat on the guest chair next to me. Due to my line of work, I'd learnt to tappered down that flight or vomit instinct that we get from lecherous white men. He was talking and I kept asking but why to everything. The more whys I asked, the more he explained. While explaining, he would rest his hand on my hand, accidentally rest it on my thigh, rub my arm etc. I kept looking at his hands wherever he placed it. He felt brave.

When my hour was up, he now asked for his money. I quietly asked him if he honestly thought I was going to pay him €200 of my money for him to molest me? I heard him call me the B**** as I left his office. I just chuckled. The secretary laughed to. What a weasel.

I ended up doing the case myself based on his advice and won.

 

[trueheartofgold]

This is a true story. For reference, I have 3C hair. When I put it in a bun its very wavy. A guy asked me if my p***y hair is the same with this big grin on his face.

I was in so much shock I couldn't even answer but the look I gave him told it all.

 

[NaturalShe94]

Was in a store some where and some big Jason Momoa sized fine piece of chocolate came up to me and said that he had been watching me for 30 mins. He said he though I was beautiful and he would like to get to know me a little better. He said I have to know one thing though. He said he already knew the answer but he had to confirm. He asked if I was a Scorpio and I started laughing. He said he could tell by the way I carried myself and the way I walked (huh?) . That's why he watched me for 30 mins to see how I interacted with other people. I said yes I am a Scorpio. The he said , backed up and saying he couldn't get involved with a Scorpio because we snatched ninjas souls and never release them.

What in the living helllllll..... Why did I nearly spit out my drink....

 

[Thump]

What in the living helllllll..... Why did I nearly spit out my drink....

Girl I don't know what that was about but I am often told by men that I must be a Scorpio after they spend some time with me. They can't tell me why they say that when I ask other than because I am super mysterious.

 

[caribeandiva]

"Hey Gurl can I take you out sometimes?" He said as he was fixing his license due to late or unpaid child support payments.

 

[mrselle]

The summer after my freshman year of college I worked at a grocery store. One night before closing I was putting misplaced items in their correct spot when a co-worker (white man) came up to me, sniffed me and said, "You smell good even after a long day at work. I wonder what you smell like after you've been intimate."

Several years ago I was sitting at my desk at work when a co-worker (a white man) dropped some paperwork off at my desk. Before he left his voice got low and he says, "Can I tell you something?" I said, "What is it?" He says, "You have some beautiful lips. I was looking at you in the meeting on Friday and said to myself, good god those are the prettiest lips I've ever seen on a woman."