Bozcurls
Yeah...I get what you're saying.....and you're absolutely right.
In reality, it
SHOULDN'T matter really.
I'm as "open" as open can be when it comes to IRR, or the thought of being in another IRR in the future. But when I REALLY think about it.....I mean SERIOUSLY think about it..... Idk...
erplexed
Just even the thought of having to "defend" our relationship or give "reasons" for why we're even together just seems like too much of a headache to me. Friends and family would be cool since we're all pretty diverse and open in that way, but STRANGERS??
Idk... I just don't know if I could (or even WOULD want to) handle that....ALL.THE.TIME.
*sigh* I guess, when you get a little older, you start looking at things a little differently I suppose.
erplexed
I'm pretty private and I don't like a lot of attention on me, so if some ladies have run into BM (or just people in general) heckling them, or giving them dirty looks because of who they're dating, then that makes ME start to think.
Idk if I would want to have to undergo that type of scrutiny whenever we're out somewhere...ykwim?
So, I'm not saying "no" to IR dating, I'm just saying...."I don't know"....
erplexed
I hope this makes sense