He Used The "p-word" In Our Second Phone Conversation. . .
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Crackers Phinn
Either A Blessing Or A Lesson.
From an article on the topic
Research does suggest that people who marry multiple times are more likely (than people who do not marry multiple times) to have personality traits and issues with emotional health that make it difficult to maintain satisfying, long-term relationships, Parker says. That can mean, even if you're not looking for anything lasting, you won't have much fun with a narcissist whose self-absorption and emotional detachment helped end several marriages.
By the numbers, it's important to know how a once-divorced person has processed what went wrong, and whether he or she has done any work and gained insight toward correcting the problems. Twice-married people can indicate there are issues not understood or resolved, Saltz says. For those married three or more times, it's more likely they have problems choosing someone appropriate or "staying the course" in intimate relationships.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/...vorce-rates-relationship-coach-multiple-times
MissNina
Libra Girl
My Google voice numbers have saved me so many times in the past. I actually started using them regularly years ago when this girl in my state got shot in the head after not giving this guy her number. Freaked me all the way out. I have like 4 now lol
But I agree that him using that word with you so early is crazy. Profanity is one thing, but that word is so vulgar
you need to develop a relationship of some substance with someone before you go dropping it all willy nilly.
But I agree that him using that word with you so early is crazy. Profanity is one thing, but that word is so vulgar
you need to develop a relationship of some substance with someone before you go dropping it all willy nilly.
Silkycoils
Well-Known Member
My Google voice numbers have saved me so many times in the past. I actually started using them regularly years ago when this girl in my state got shot in the head after not giving this guy her number. Freaked me all the way out. I have like 4 now lol
But I agree that him using that word with you so early is crazy. Profanity is one thing, but that word is so vulgar
Right?! Had me like,
https://media.giphy.com/media/8iDgKXQMF6HqE/giphy.gif
I can't wait until my gifs start showing up again. Click the link to see me clutching my pearls.
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Or it could mean he's an unemotionally unavailable commitment-phobe.
IME, that's the most likely scenario.
PhonyBaloney500
Well-Known Member
Do you have them memorized?My Google voice numbers have saved me so many times in the past. I actually started using them regularly years ago when this girl in my state got shot in the head after not giving this guy her number. Freaked me all the way out. I have like 4 now lol
But I agree that him using that word with you so early is crazy. Profanity is one thing, but that word is so vulgar
GeorginaSparks
Well-Known Member
I use GV for everyone even job interviews. When i got my job then i gave my boss my real #.
Crackers Phinn
Either A Blessing Or A Lesson.
A lifelong bachelor especially one over 40 means to keep it that way.
It gives me no pleasure in saying this but women across the racial board who want to get married will marry an unemployed, one legged, cockeyed, toupee wearing midget with erectile dysfunction and chronic halitosis. I don't care how big a f up a man is if he wants to get married he can. That same rule does not apply to women. Exceptions don't make the rule. So that said, a dude who is 40 plus and never married either has ridiculously high standards fueled by an unrealistic picture of himself or he just doesn't want to be married. Both states of being make him a waster of a woman's very valuable time.
LBoogie85
Active Member
Yep. And for anyone who follows Rori Raye's material, she had a male guest on the Toxic Men program who said that these types of guys are the most toxic men in his opinion and women should avoid them like the plague.
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
I've dealt with one of each. Currently trying to move on from the latter after many years, unfortunately. Not just anti-marriage, anti-relationship, period.
Valuable but painful lesson learned.
MissNina
Libra Girl
Two of them I do, the other two I usually don't use now since I've been in a rlshp for a long time. I use the two #s I have on my phones (work & personal) via the app.
dancinstallion
Well-Known Member
You did right. You better hope he doesn't start calling you from random numbers. I had a guy who used it the first time we text.
Him: Good Morning beautiful. Hope you're having a great day.
Me: Thank you. You as well.
Him: I'm not gonna lie you're so sexy, an ya @$$ is fat I would eat u up u like gettin ya p***** ate?
Me: This conversation took an unexpected turn. You should ask a girl out on a proper date before you ask about her bedroom preferences. Us getting to know each other is not going to work. Be good.
Him: I mean no disrespect I just wanted to know but I already had in mind to take u out. I'm just waitin on a time when u free boo. What's your nationality?
After this interaction I blocked him and for weeks he contacted me from different numbers telling me to unblock him.I should have followed my intuition and not given him my number when we met but he was handsome so I gave in.
this has me laughing. He needs to go somewhere with his thirsty arse. Talking about what's you nationality and unblock me.I REFUSE to ask somebody to unblock me.
boy bye
caribeandiva
Human being
Alright y’all, I got a google voice number!! I’ve got it memorized just in case.
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