Blaque*Angel
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Some men are just so trifiling, She says she has been questioning him. He shows no remorse and did not apologise until she prompted him too!!
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I will be holding onto my purse tightly when I go to her house
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She says she checked her bank account noticed about $100 was missing
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She did not think much of it at first then began to question herself, She knew clearly that she did not take out any money from her bank, So contacted her bank. The ATM which was used was round the corner from her house,
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She spoke to her husband about it and he just played along with it saying "wow, thats strange!"
The bank had to cancel her old cards, send her new cards, reimburse her money, contact the police.
She spoke to her husband about it again and he said "I think we should get the police involved, lets go to the station!"
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The next day the police contacted my cousin and told her they have a image of a man withdrawing monies from her account,using her card
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She told her husband she was going to the police station to view the image.. *I asked at this point did she not know it was him?*
She says no, They have been together 16 years, She trusts him..She has left huge amounts of money around the house and he never touches her personal belongings.
Back to the story:
She says her husband was fidgetting, He was sweating, He had his head down,he would not give her eye contact..
She asked out of shock.."Was it you?" He replied "The only times I take monies out of your account is when you request me to."
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She says why can you not chill then? Her husband took out the trash..
She stood at the door and said to him "I know it was you!"
He then said "OK,Yes..It was!"
No remorse, no apology,no explanation
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She had to grill him to get out some BS story.
*He has an history of mental illness* If that makes a difference..
His BS story was:
He's depressed,He feels suicidal, He wanted to go on a little get away trip..
He has never stole from her or anyone else before, He was angry as they had a huge argument a few weeks prior and had not made up, He was missing her and sex.
He felt unloved, He thought she was being selfish lately..etc etc etc..
My cousin is not satisfied with this story, She told the bank it was a family theft,She dropped the charges with the cops,She has put him on the sofa, She has locked away all of her belongings in safety boxes..
She says he keeps his head down constantly, avoids eye contact and conversations with her.
The trust is out of the window n ow.
The thing that gets me mad out of this whole issue is she is not being "mean" to him, I went to her house yesterday and HE is the one giving HER silent treatment. She is rushing around after him, Cooking him meals, Being extra nice..I know she does not want to lose her husband but she has to face facts that something is not right at all.
It is either he is experiencing mental problems again, He has turned into a petty theif after all of these years, He is demanding her attention or something..
She asked me what I would do if it was me! I told her I would be doing the opposite you are doing, Why are you trying to make him feel comfortable after he has messed up your trust? Why are you cooking for him?
You supposed to let him do the grovelling,He is the one who needs to be apologising, cooking,cleaning, showing he is genuinely sorry not sat there frowning like the world is on top of his shoulder..
I think she is a fool and she bends over backwards for him.
He actually cheated on her *(for the first time*)
The woman lost the child then my cousin got back with him and had a child every year.
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Something is not right. She has lost a lot of weight and when you look in her eyes she looks stressed, She's very beautiful inside and out and I think he is taking the piss. He is taking her kindness for weakness..She deserves much better than this, I love her so much but do not want to see her being abused emotionally by this guy any longer.
I hardly speak to him after his one night stand issue.But this theft thing is making me want to get my male cousin to talk to him!
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Also, She is the breadwinner. She has a high paid job with lots of hours, he does not work because of his mental illness. So stays at home with the younger children,The others are in some type of daycare.
He appears to be A good dad. The children are always all over him, kissing him and everything. He cooks and cleans etc...Apart from his depression, getting the one night stand girl pregnant and now this theft he seems OK..
But my dear cousin seems to be doing wayyyyy too much to keep this guy happy. HE doesn't need to worry about paying the bills,buying food, clothes, child care /day care etc as my cousin does everything for him..he lives scot free. In the house that my aunt bought for my cousin.
I feel anoid reading this back, as it is obvious he is taking her for a fool..
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