This 50-11th dating thread by Sonce is brought to you by the letter F. (Sorry y'all, this is where I'm at right now...dating, dating, dating 24/7. )
I had "the talk" with a guy I've been seeing since November. The end result of the talk is that we are officially boyfriend/girlfriend and exclusive and blah blah blah. Don't get me wrong, this is great...but I like having back-up plans, you see. I have another guy I've been seeing since two weeks after I met the fellow I spoke with today, and I'm casually dating another guy who I'm just getting to know. I'm also scheduled to go on a date next week with a really great guy who is interested in me...Busy, huh?
I want a serious, longterm relationship, but I don't want any one guy to be able to hold me to ransom. So, at any given time, I'm cultivating a few potentials so that I have the upper hand on all these dispensable mofos...bwahahaha...
Oh and I'm celibate, so don't nobody get out of pocket.
Anyway, is it cheating to keep cultivating my other potentials? What exactly is cheating? I'm starting to feel as if the only true commitment is a marital one, and I don't see a ring on my finger...
To you, what is what cheating is exactly?
Did you always feel this way? (or did marriage, divorce, or something change your mind on the definition of cheating?)
I had "the talk" with a guy I've been seeing since November. The end result of the talk is that we are officially boyfriend/girlfriend and exclusive and blah blah blah. Don't get me wrong, this is great...but I like having back-up plans, you see. I have another guy I've been seeing since two weeks after I met the fellow I spoke with today, and I'm casually dating another guy who I'm just getting to know. I'm also scheduled to go on a date next week with a really great guy who is interested in me...Busy, huh?
I want a serious, longterm relationship, but I don't want any one guy to be able to hold me to ransom. So, at any given time, I'm cultivating a few potentials so that I have the upper hand on all these dispensable mofos...bwahahaha...
Oh and I'm celibate, so don't nobody get out of pocket.
Anyway, is it cheating to keep cultivating my other potentials? What exactly is cheating? I'm starting to feel as if the only true commitment is a marital one, and I don't see a ring on my finger...
To you, what is what cheating is exactly?
Did you always feel this way? (or did marriage, divorce, or something change your mind on the definition of cheating?)
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