I mean a woman with relaxed hair who wears protective styles about half the time.
I would say "no" for most women. I would also say that I can tell which 4bs wear protective styles and which ones don't because the ones who don't protective style tend to have thin ends with a drastic V shape when they straighten their hair (Think of those who claim WL while most of their hair is something like APL with only a tuft at their nape reaching WL).
Heat trained hair and heat damaged hair are different, it shouldn't be confused as the same.
I'm honestly on the fence about this. I won't say its impossible but I rarely hear of WL 4b women who dnt protective style
i wouldn't say this is entirely true. i've seen people who don't protective style with thick, healthy ends, and i've seen people who wear a bun all day erryday with that same straggly V.
and it definitely doesn't just apply to people with the 4b hairtype.
def not true - my dd is a few inches off of wl - i never protective styled her - like sylver i feel whats the sense in having hair you cant wear and enjoy. i do tell her to cover it at night, but 1/2 time she forgets and she does not sleep on a silk pillow case..... now let me try that one, it wont work. she just has very strong 4b hair that takes extreme abuse to break.I'm no where near WL but I will say that every 4b person with really long hair that I've seen have been protective stylers.. careful detangling and protective styling is something I've noticed they all have in common. Plus I just think that once your hair gets to a certain length it seems like protective styling would be second nature becaue its so easy.....
def not true - my dd is a few inches off of wl - i never protective styled her - like sylver i feel whats the sense in having hair you cant wear and enjoy. i do tell her to cover it at night, but 1/2 time she forgets and she does not sleep on a silk pillow case..... now let me try that one, it wont work. she just has very strong 4b hair that takes extreme abuse to break.
^^^ She makes some valid points because clearly there are some who retain length without PS but she lost credibility when she talked about her "heat trained" hair i.e. hair damaged by heat.
When you detangle, don't the naps and tangles make you lose hair?I don't ever protective style but it takes a lot to do what I do. It's easy for me now because ive been doin it so long now. Ive' noticed many just can't leave their hair alone. i don't care about tangles, naps etc as long as its inside and the outside looks smooth. U can never just run your fingers thru my hair..lol.
i tackle all that on wash days twce a month.
In 2004 i came to this board with overprocessed damaged breaking off hair. I was a get touch up every 4 WEEKS if u can believe that i was not cutting it all off yet again and i was not hiding it(might as well cut it off imo)
It was a do or die decision for me with my hair.
very low to no manipulation(no combing) stretching, minimal heat, and lots of leave ins(my moisture) are my keys.
When you detangle, don't the naps and tangles make you lose hair?