mzstarr[/USER];16841477]hello everyone,
i haven't been here in a long time (may 5) because it's been a process learning to love my hair again. i finally decided i was way too full of information and didn't know which way to turn, plus had zero patience
. so i decided
to chill all the way out and let it be!!!! this was the best decision i'd made about my hair since the one to go natural. i have made it thru the bc, twa, ohhhh no, i hate it stages and i will be completely natural from the creamy crack for a year on 9/24. i thought " i never would have made it" because i was so frustrated and disappointed. i am proud that i stuck to my plan. i loved my hair semi short with a texturizer and had an extremely hard time accepting that when natural "it did what it do". i lost all control of it and that was NOT in my plan.
looking thru this thread i found myself: at my bc i looked like
faithVA and yesterday i went with
APrayer4Hair's bc pictures. i love it!!! but mostly because i had a problem with my edges but finally learned that i could grow them back.
but only if i stopped stressing about them. the second greatest thing i learned is that i can NOT do an entire line of products because the products don't all work for ME which saves both money and frustration.
silk elements: shampoo and rinse out conditioner plus deep conditioner (yes i know, SULFATES---but my hair loves these products
erplexed)
as i am: coconut co wash
entwine: argan oil and any brand vitamin e oil (i accidently found out vit e grows hair while using it on a surgical scar)
entwine: butter creme and jelle stying creme
curls: passion fruit pomade
s curl: activator and moisture spray
JBCO: arrived yesterday
4b fine and soft really curly hair
goal is healthy
color treated (most cut out yesterday)
satin bonnet and pillow case