Helpmeblongagain
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Ive recently started dating again...and as a safeguard I came up with a few rules, but a few of my friends think I have too many rules and they indeed may prevent the relationship from progressing...
1) Until we have a conversation confirming we are exclusive...I will continue to see other people and assume you are doing the same.
2) U ain't gettin no poons if u ain't my man...
3) I'm not spending the night at your house while we are both seeing other people...I just feel like spending the night sets me up...and I'm not comfortable knowing that I may be in your bed Monday and Susie on Tuesday...eww..
4) After I give you my number...you must take me out if you would like to see me...not invite me to your house to "chill"...Id actually prefer for it to be this way for the first couple of dates...
5) If you tell me you're not open to being in a relationship...I wont allow myself to speak you daily...I honestly feel that those "innocent" daily, hr long conversations can really lead to some emotional attachment...
Please tell me what you think...I really need to know if I'm overdoing it...I honestly dont think so...
1) Until we have a conversation confirming we are exclusive...I will continue to see other people and assume you are doing the same.
2) U ain't gettin no poons if u ain't my man...
3) I'm not spending the night at your house while we are both seeing other people...I just feel like spending the night sets me up...and I'm not comfortable knowing that I may be in your bed Monday and Susie on Tuesday...eww..
4) After I give you my number...you must take me out if you would like to see me...not invite me to your house to "chill"...Id actually prefer for it to be this way for the first couple of dates...
5) If you tell me you're not open to being in a relationship...I wont allow myself to speak you daily...I honestly feel that those "innocent" daily, hr long conversations can really lead to some emotional attachment...
Please tell me what you think...I really need to know if I'm overdoing it...I honestly dont think so...