mg1979
Well-Known Member
So we all know as much as our wedding day is such a special happy time, planning a wedding can get down right stessful. So I thought it would be nice to have a thread where you can come in and vent and de-stress in a totally safe environment without judgment. It's not always easy to do this with your family and friends, because they might take it personally.
I'll start this off...one of my biggest struggles has been dealing with the wants or even criticisms of others. My fiance and I have made some decisions about things regarding our wedding, especially regarding expenses, without anyone offering help (emotionally or financially), only for them to complain now that it's too late to change something. If these things mattered so much to them, the time to have offered up some suggestions, help, money, etc. was many, many months ago. We are both struggling on how to respond without hurting anyone's feelings. Anyone feel me on this?
I'll start this off...one of my biggest struggles has been dealing with the wants or even criticisms of others. My fiance and I have made some decisions about things regarding our wedding, especially regarding expenses, without anyone offering help (emotionally or financially), only for them to complain now that it's too late to change something. If these things mattered so much to them, the time to have offered up some suggestions, help, money, etc. was many, many months ago. We are both struggling on how to respond without hurting anyone's feelings. Anyone feel me on this?