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andromeda
Hi Andromeda! Thanks for the shout. Being in Australia with so few black hair care products is what kind of got me to choosing to be natural.
First step was "dang, how am I going to get Mizani Butter Blends shipped to me out here?" Next was, "Holy cow! there's so many Indian stores here! Lemme load up on henna!" After that was "Wow, I think relaxers are really thinning my hair out. I should consider going natural". And finally I got to "Hmmm, I live in a place where everything is washed into my drinking water. What the heck do I look like being anything OTHER than natural-Lemme figure this out"
Funny, there was something about finally being able to get a comb through my new growth using oil rinses that let me know it's ok to chop the rest of it off. I do miss my length, but it grows SO FAST now! Since I now have figured out a few ways to make it look cute while it's short, I don't feel like this journey is so endless for me. Braids are expensive here, plus I like knowing how I look is all me. I do wear wigs from time to time, but it's usually for a performance. I think the advice to get used to your hair early on is a valid one. The positive of going natural in Australia is that you HAVE to find natural alternatives, because the store simply isn't stocking something you may use regularly without it being REALLY expensive. So, coconut oil, avocado oil, henna, baking soda, all reasonably priced and work well. Shea butter is either really expensive here-or the Africans sell you stuff so rancid you don't want to put it in your hair. It's good though, to spend so little on maintenance, so you can spend more on decoration