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Don't leave. Please stay. I have a friend that has the same type hair that you have. I always thought it was type 2. I don't know. But when she wet here hair, it becomes naturally curly and looks like she has a jheri curl. For years she had a relaxer. Why I don't know. She has not relaxed in over a year now but still prefers the straight look, so she has it flat ironed. Why are people so ignorant to the fact that this type hair exist on black women. My friend is completely African American and not mixed with a thing. Girl, keep doing your thing and forget the haters. Jealous!
 
Sorry people were like that to you. It seems obvious to me that this is your natural hair texture:confused:

Were they really accusing you of texturizing or just asking out of ignorance. It could be a compliment like "Hey what did you do to get your hair like that, I would like to do it also"

Maybe not, in any event I like your hair and it seems easy to tell that this is your natural texture.

Good Luck!
 
beadedgirl said:
What the HELL!!!!!!!!!.....Silver girl i hope the negativity isn't coming from inside HERE!!!!.....all you beatiful women here with your beatiful heads of hair are true inspiration to me!!!!!

I can see how even one neg. comment coming from rude fruitcakes can throw you.

Don't go girl pretty please............:mad: :mad:
for some reason I really doubt it (oh wait they pm'ed you:confused:, expose their butt! ) I know I love SG's hair and it makes me know that transistioning and having gorgeous hair is possible. They obviously didnt want to be know on her fotki bc they left anon comments...F em girl
 
I know I'm late but you have to be convinced by now that you have so many members on here who love you and don't want to see you go. I have always enjoyed visiting your fotki. Stay encouraged girl because Haters are everywhere.
 
Well Dang! You miss sometime on the board to come back to folks leaving because some pple are actually sending hate mail through PM :( , that's just sad and crazy. I can't believe so called women would actually do such a thing, very childish IMO. Isn't there a way to put pple on ignore, that's what I would do and disable my Fotki comments.

Your hair is beautiful girl don't let them keep you away from the board, as Blosssom sad you have been through worst b4.
 
:cry3: :cry3: :eek: I'm shocked. Please don't go I've been stalking your page for the longest. Those haters don't know what they're talking about. That's just jealousy, and they should be ashamed. They need to leave, not you.
 
Too bad you can't call them out. Hating is an art mastered by those who can't do. Each one of us have our own hair texture. If you think someone's regimen would not benefit you because your hair texture is different, just move on to someone else. Only when we embrace our unique hair qualities we can start growing beautiful hair.

Do not let these people dictate your life. Your hair is beautiful and so is everyone else' who have master the art of hair texture acceptance (Same goes for skin tone [jk]).
 
JustMeSteph said:
for some reason I really doubt it (oh wait they pm'ed you:confused:, expose their butt! ) I know I love SG's hair and it makes me know that transistioning and having gorgeous hair is possible. They obviously didnt want to be know on her fotki bc they left anon comments...F em girl


Oh no JustMe,nobody has ever treated me bad on this site,its just that i thought some of her(silver) trouble was coming from in here.I couldn't imagine this place being a breeding ground for uncivilized folks.

I hope she reconsiders!!!!!!!!!!!
 
silvergirl said:
yes this is a "good"bye thread.
yes its actually about hair, thats why its posted here.
yes i am finished here.

im tired of ppl accusing me im pm, in my comment box on fotki, and private msg there and other messege boards, of having a texturizer.

its so impossible to believe that maybe, god created hair that can lay flat when its wet, and curls when dry??? seriously take 4a hair,. its has smallish curls that when texturizer become wavy and thiner, due to the curl pattern. now those ppl are emulating the look of 3c hair.

so why is it so hard to understand that 3c hair would naturally have those charateristics are well???

its freaking retarded.

and im tired of having to explain to ppl, that YES, THIS IS my natural texture!

im tired of natural headed ppl telling me . im not really natural, or that my opinion is worth jack because im not a true nappie.

im tired of relaxed heads telling me , that i must have used a chemical to get my hair "like that".

i didnt subcribe to this board to get hate mail. so im done with this.

to those that supported me, and encouraged me, thank you , i appreciate it

see you around.


WOW. Is it that serious? Your opinion is valued. Don't let a few people or other message boards that like to lurk on LHCF send you packing.
 
Silvergirl, I love your comments tips and suggestions. Your hair is so pretty and well cared for, and it is very clear to most of us here that your hair is natural. I can compare your hair to other texturized heads on this board, and it is very clear that your hair is not processed. You've let us witness your grow out journey for over a year, and who the heck would "fake the funk" for that long??? Gosh, people suck. Please leave Silver alone whoever you are, get a life and worry about your own head!!!
 
Look at all the love you are getting. I love your hair! I haven't had a chance to really stalk your album the way I want to. You inspire me to go back to natural. Hopefully you will see all these posts and stay.
 
WillyGWifey said:
boys 2 me : please don't go away

you can't let those girls
go and push you out
and don't leave us (oooooooh, ooo, oooh, ooo)

please don't go away from this
we can work it out
whenever you need us girl
please don't go (no no no, no no please don't go)

please don't go away (don't go)
we will be here, we'll be right here

:lachen: I was going to post this exact song! LOL. I think your hair is pretty, Silvergirl. I'm a newbie and whenever I read the comments I always stop to admire your hair. Don't let any haters run you away. People always tell me and my sister we have weave (when I was relaxed), hating. I just say forget them. They have to get over their own jealousy and take care of their own hair.... I'll worry about mine. Report them to the mods, put them on ignore and keep doing your thang!:yep: :)
 
camellia said:
Don't go, sis!:(

Make your album private. I did, and I know quite a few other ladies did when the ignorant comments started flowing.

Turn off your PMs or put those people on ignore, then they won't be able to PM you.

Some people just refuse to believe our natural hair runs the gamut when it comes to texture.:ohwell: Ignore them.

I wish you'd stay!

Cosigning on everything she just said. Please stay...:(
Your hair is great!:eek:
Let them hate!:grin:
 
whooaaa!! I just checked out your fotki, and your hair is simply BEAUTIFUL!!!!
I know that it has probably been said many times throughout this thread, but don't let a few negative folks steal your joy or run you off.....

I'm still trippin that some folks actually have the audacity to pm someone with negative comments! da hell?! :confused:
 
i hope you're not letting other people dictate your actions. so what they accuse you of stuff you don't do. Let those dumbasses stay dumb and move on. turn off your comment boxes on fotki and don't reply to PM that aim to hurt or discredit you. Brush your shoulders off and keep on moving. there will always be haters no matter where you go. your job is to ignore them and pretend they don't get to you.
 
kweenameena said:
Wow, I think she's really gone!:(

Maybe she is. This harassment has been going on for a long time, she's posted about it before. Maybe it became a more of a source of stress than a source of info for her, I woulda left too.
 
Hey ladies...maybe the Mods are speaking to her and trying to help. I'm sure names won't be posted, and I'm also sure that the Mods won't let this go...they will handle all the people who sent her any nasty pm's, so let's give her a little time to calm down and think about it. She is a sister here and we want her to come back, but sometimes people need to take a little break.

We miss you already, Silvergirl! See all the love.... !





 
I can't believe the gall of women. This is just so shady.

If I was you I would be on here posting pics every chance I got let them hate it doesn't change nothing about you or your hair.

DON'T GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Silvergirl - If you need some time away, we understand.

Your hair is so gorgeous, it's driving a few negative people to complete madness. Camellia gave good advice.

Hope you return soon!!!
 
silvergirl said:
yes this is a "good"bye thread.
yes its actually about hair, thats why its posted here.
yes i am finished here.

im tired of ppl accusing me im pm, in my comment box on fotki, and private msg there and other messege boards, of having a texturizer.

its so impossible to believe that maybe, god created hair that can lay flat when its wet, and curls when dry??? seriously take 4a hair,. its has smallish curls that when texturizer become wavy and thiner, due to the curl pattern. now those ppl are emulating the look of 3c hair.

so why is it so hard to understand that 3c hair would naturally have those charateristics are well???

its freaking retarded.

and im tired of having to explain to ppl, that YES, THIS IS my natural texture!

im tired of natural headed ppl telling me . im not really natural, or that my opinion is worth jack because im not a true nappie.

im tired of relaxed heads telling me , that i must have used a chemical to get my hair "like that".

i didnt subcribe to this board to get hate mail. so im done with this.

to those that supported me, and encouraged me, thank you , i appreciate it

see you around.

Well, later, I guess. :ohwell:

I'm going to be real: You seem a bit of a drama queen. Not just here, but on other threads that you've commented on. That said, I don't understand why people would not believe that your hair texture is your hair texture. :confused: It looks like the texture of many black women on this board and elsewhere. If people are actually wasting time accusing you of doing "something" to your hair, that's sad for them.

But to be honest and real again, this whole thread is ridiculous. People here endure similar stuff and aren't this thin-skinned about it. I was lurking when the whole DL "Does SherryLove have a weave" debacle broke, and SherryLove handled it with grace and class. When someone started hating on Sylver in her Fokti, she made an offhand comment about it in a different thread and locked her Fokti down to anon comments. People are gonna think what they think. People are going to make comments that others won't like. And starting an "OMG, I'm leaving, goodbye cruel world!!!11111one!!11" thread makes you look as nutty and pathetic as the people doing all this in the first place. YOU know what grows out of your head and how. If others' don't, then that's their issue.
 
KeyahGirl said:
Well, later, I guess. :ohwell:

I'm going to be real: You seem a bit of a drama queen. Not just here, but on other threads that you've commented on. That said, I don't understand why people would not believe that your hair texture is your hair texture. :confused: It looks like the texture of many black women on this board and elsewhere. If people are actually wasting time accusing you of doing "something" to your hair, that's sad for them.

But to be honest and real again, this whole thread is ridiculous. People here endure similar stuff and aren't this thin-skinned about it. I was lurking when the whole DL "Does SherryLove have a weave" debacle broke, and SherryLove handled it with grace and class. When someone started hating on Sylver in her Fokti, she made an offhand comment about it in a different thread and locked her Fokti down to anon comments. People are gonna think what they think. People are going to make comments that others won't like. And starting an "OMG, I'm leaving, goodbye cruel world!!!11111one!!11" thread makes you look as nutty and pathetic as the people doing all this in the first place. YOU know what grows out of your head and how. If others' don't, then that's their issue.


I dont think that it does....clearly she was just saying goodbye and telling us what was going down...I dont look at it further than that. Im glad that she did post this thread because now I know whats REALLY going down around here and also as a fan of her fotki I would have been wondering what happened to her...
 
KeyahGirl said:
Well, later, I guess. :ohwell:

I'm going to be real: You seem a bit of a drama queen. Not just here, but on other threads that you've commented on. That said, I don't understand why people would not believe that your hair texture is your hair texture. :confused: It looks like the texture of many black women on this board and elsewhere. If people are actually wasting time accusing you of doing "something" to your hair, that's sad for them.

But to be honest and real again, this whole thread is ridiculous. People here endure similar stuff and aren't this thin-skinned about it. I was lurking when the whole DL "Does SherryLove have a weave" debacle broke, and SherryLove handled it with grace and class. When someone started hating on Sylver in her Fokti, she made an offhand comment about it in a different thread and locked her Fokti down to anon comments. People are gonna think what they think. People are going to make comments that others won't like. And starting an "OMG, I'm leaving, goodbye cruel world!!!11111one!!11" thread makes you look as nutty and pathetic as the people doing all this in the first place. YOU know what grows out of your head and how. If others' don't, then that's their issue.

:eek: :eek: :eek: !!!!!
 
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Hi silvergirl :),
I just wanted to say that you'll be missed and hope you reconsider.
 
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