larry3344
Well-Known Member
Second part: I am 28 and unmarried/no official broyfriend. Still living at home to save money while I climb the corporate ladder. And now they are all on me about it, chastising what I wear to this that and third. I was chastised for wearing a comfortable shirt and capris jeans to go to a sporting activity. Like I get it they want me to meet someone but like it’s gettjbg now suffocating. I am not opposed to meeting anyone, but it has to be the right person for me.
Many of my relatives have horrible marriages/relationships or are divorced.
My own aunt married some old infertile white trash man for Quebec with whom she had to get fertility treatments to have her skin (no disrespect her). And she tells me that having children won’t prevent me from advancing professionally and it doesn’t matter if the guy is a jerk because kids honours a woman. Now, I may seem like a loner but once I am ready to settle down I don’t want to live that struggle relationship I see so many black women living.
I do date just none of them are worth reporting about. And I am not about to rush to get someone just because. I think what bothers them is. My brothers who is 5years younger than I has a girlfriend and I don’t have a boyfriend to show them. What they don’t see it’s ghat the dating dynamic for Boys and girls are different.
Also the dating market is different for us now than it was for them. And I am not someone to be with anyone just because.
Anyway just needed to vent!!!
Many of my relatives have horrible marriages/relationships or are divorced.
My own aunt married some old infertile white trash man for Quebec with whom she had to get fertility treatments to have her skin (no disrespect her). And she tells me that having children won’t prevent me from advancing professionally and it doesn’t matter if the guy is a jerk because kids honours a woman. Now, I may seem like a loner but once I am ready to settle down I don’t want to live that struggle relationship I see so many black women living.
I do date just none of them are worth reporting about. And I am not about to rush to get someone just because. I think what bothers them is. My brothers who is 5years younger than I has a girlfriend and I don’t have a boyfriend to show them. What they don’t see it’s ghat the dating dynamic for Boys and girls are different.
Also the dating market is different for us now than it was for them. And I am not someone to be with anyone just because.
Anyway just needed to vent!!!