Stealing Men: Have You Ever?.....

[barbiesocialite]

DidDid you steal you man from another chick?

Ever stole a man from another woman?

Lets discuss.....

 

[secretdiamond]

A man can't be stolen, but nope, never have.

 

[LoveLiLi]

No. I have been in situations where someone could easily frame it that way, but I don't steal men.

Not that they could be stolen anyway. They're choosing to leave.

 

[barbiesocialite]

Ive stolen a couple men before.

Hmmmm....

My most notable were my first two loves. I made fake friends with the first girl and the second.... Well I straight jacked. Met him on Sunday and made him call the other chick on 3-way on Wednesday to tell her it was over.

My besti thinks I should steal one of my male friends... We shall see...

 

[GetHappy2014]

Would waiting for a separation to happen (you are lurking) in a marriage and then being available to him when he immediately pursues you. Is that stealing?

 

[daydreem2876]

just because a girl's answer is no, does not necessarily mean a girl is not a homewrecker... thought a girl would toss that out there

 

[Lucie]

My friend in HS betrayed me by telling my dad things were not true. As payback I dated her crush. He did not know she was even alive. I am not sure if that is stealing. Wait, this is petty! Yes! I should be in the petty thread!

 

[Jasmataz]

Dh had a girlfriend when we met. We were messing around with each other for a few months before he left her. We were like 19/20 at the time and didn't really take that kind of stuff seriously.

 

[Godsdaughter001]

Never.

But I got stole.

 

[silverbuttons]

i don't know if stealing is the right word...

 

[Miss617]

To hear her tell it, yes.

I know the truth, though.

 

[movingforward13]

Hell no. I believe in Karma- bad energy out comes back

 

[Crackers Phinn]

Yes. More than once.


Story of my life. Not necessarily proud of it.

 

[ChasingBliss]

This type of stuff happened a lot when I was a teenager. But even then it was his choice to walk away from the other "girl"...But as a grown woman...nah I dont look at other people's men as options for relationships. I always remember "how you get him is how you lose him" and I believe it. Most people I knew well who did stuff like this...the dude always cheated on her or the relationship fell apart because of her insecurities.

 

[Layluh]

Yes and I'd do it again

 

[BlueEra]

When I was young and dumb I "borrowed" a guy, I'm ashamed to say. I had a crush on a new guy in HS. There was a rumor that he had a girlfriend, but let him tell it he was single. I took his word for it for awhile even though people cautioned against it. Our high school was huge, so chances of me running into her were slim...plus she was apparently a freshman and I a senior. I was cocky and didn't mind playing with fire. We went out a few times. He entertained me for a few months. Once I realized he was a compulsive liar, I let that one go.

I feel that karma got me good on that one. I've never had a good relationship with a man since. Every last one of my guys has cheated on me, or I've dealt with men who lied about wanting serious relationships. I feel like I'm cursed and hoping that my karma has or will come to an end soon.

 

[Layluh]

When I was young and dumb I "borrowed" a guy, I'm ashamed to say. I had a crush on a new guy in HS. There was a rumor that he had a girlfriend, but let him tell it he was single. I took his word for it for awhile even though people cautioned against it. Our high school was huge, so chances of me running into her were slim...plus she was apparently a freshman and I a senior. I was cocky and didn't mind playing with fire. We went out a few times. He entertained me for a few months. Once I realized he was a compulsive liar, I let that one go.

I feel that karma got me good on that one. I've never had a good relationship with a man since. Every last one of my guys has cheated on me, or I've dealt with men who lied about wanting serious relationships. I feel like I'm cursed and hoping that my karma has or will come to an end soon.

It seems like every guy including the first liar guy had something wrong with them. Just learn how to vet and be a better judge of character rather than blame it on karma

 

[giigii613]

I had a terrible misread of the OP title, I thought it was going to ask if you ever stole from a man.

To the topic: not to my knowledge.

 

[caribeandiva]

Nope never have.

 

[barbiesocialite]

Y'all so shady

 

[naheda72]

Yes, more than once, but only one of them was worth it.

 

[CurlyMoo]

Not yet.
At my age and based on what I have seen of humanity, yes you can steal a lover from another lover. And I am not as convinced it's a bad thing. Just life.
Many people don't and won't leave unless they have another option waiting for them.
But in the end, the bond was not strong enough to stay anyhow.

I am tired of playing good girl................

 

[CurlyMoo]

just because a girl's answer is no, does not necessarily mean a girl is not a homewrecker... thought a girl would toss that out there

A girl needs to stop watching Game of Thrones and speaking of herself in the 3rd person.
Off to Winterfell with you.
Winter is coming, gull.

 

[CurlyMoo]

I had a terrible misread of the OP title, I thought it was going to ask if you ever stole from a man.

To the topic: not to my knowledge.

Again, not yet. Just waiting on that moment.

 

[CurlyMoo]

When I was young and dumb I "borrowed" a guy, I'm ashamed to say. I had a crush on a new guy in HS. There was a rumor that he had a girlfriend, but let him tell it he was single. I took his word for it for awhile even though people cautioned against it. Our high school was huge, so chances of me running into her were slim...plus she was apparently a freshman and I a senior. I was cocky and didn't mind playing with fire. We went out a few times. He entertained me for a few months. Once I realized he was a compulsive liar, I let that one go.

I feel that karma got me good on that one. I've never had a good relationship with a man since. Every last one of my guys has cheated on me, or I've dealt with men who lied about wanting serious relationships. I feel like I'm cursed and hoping that my karma has or will come to an end soon.

Nah you are just feeling guilty about your actions because society says it's wrong.
So therefore this is the energy you bring to yourself. Maybe a form of self punishment.
None of that stuff matters. Know better, do better.

Might I use the example of our Man stealing Queen, Angelina Jolie; she snatched Brad Pitt up and never looked back.
Was arrogant about it too. Acted like it was her man and proceeded to have 10 babies with him and a very successful career.
Where is her Karma? It's all in the energy and belief in self.
Let the past lay in the past.

 

[CurlyMoo]

Y'all so shady

Is sneaking about with someone else's man fun?
I for a long time thought I would never do this with another woman's man because of my own experience but it sounds kinda fun.

 

[MrsMe]

A girl needs to stop watching Game of Thrones and speaking of herself in the 3rd person.
Off to Winterfell with you.
Winter is coming, gull.

A girl is dead over here.
To answer the OP, no I have never snatched a man from another woman. However, now that I'm older and wiser I can see how two people can fall in love even though they are in solid relationships.

 

[barbiesocialite]

Yes and I'd do it again

 

[barbiesocialite]

Is sneaking about with someone else's man fun?
I for a long time thought I would never do this with another woman's man because of my own experience but it sounds kinda fun.

Kinda

I think its an ego thing

 

[barbiesocialite]

Nah you are just feeling guilty about your actions because society says it's wrong.
So therefore this is the energy you bring to yourself. Maybe a form of self punishment.
None of that stuff matters. Know better, do better.

Might I use the example of our Man stealing Queen, Angelina Jolie; she snatched Brad Pitt up and never looked back.
Was arrogant about it too. Acted like it was her man and proceeded to have 10 babies with him and a very successful career.
Where is her Karma? It's all in the energy and belief in self.
Let the past lay in the past.

I agree. I think most women just feel guilty. I dont really buy the karma thing.