So what color/culture is your man?

[pistachio]

My finance is White(mom from Spain, dad German).

 

[Nella]

I'm african american and my boyfriend is african.

 

[lowridin76]

My SO is white.

 

[UmSumayyah]

Im on team blacky. Black American and Ghanaian.

LOL @ "team blacky".
Besides, doesn't it have "ie" on the end instead of "y"?

 

[mrsjohnson75]

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[mrsjohnson75]

My DH is a Black American...so am I!

 

[Bint Yusef]

LOL @ "team blacky".
Besides, doesn't it have "ie" on the end instead of "y"?

No, we going for the full effect not proper grammar. My dh says BE-LACCCCCCCK people.

 

[vivEz daNs lamouR]

My SO/soon to be fiance is White, from Morocco.

 

[FemmeCreole]

My current S/O is AA and I'm West Indian......we have some culture clashes but we work on understanding each other. All my exes were West Indian and I dated a white Italian.

 

[Brees_hair]

My sweety is afro-cuban/jamaican. When we first started dating, I always had to politely ask him to repeat his comments, because his accent, heavely jamaican with a spanish twang (the best way I can describe it) would sound like an entirely different language. Now, I have mastered the jamaican accent listening and learning from him, go figure!!

 

[cocoberry10]

My sweety is afro-cuban/jamaican. When we first started dating, I always had to politely ask him to repeat his comments, because his accent, heavely jamaican with a spanish twang (the best way I can describe it) would sound like an entirely different language. Now, I have mastered the jamaican accent listening and learning from him, go figure!!

LOL! This is hilarious!

 

[DayStar]

please don't stone me... but, yes... for me a non-colored man is the runner up.

Let me clarify... I like black men, indo/paki and middle eastern men. I prefer non-americans to american. White guys are always the last choice for me although I do find some of them attractive.

I've actually dated a few and I was sorta interested in a Russian man at my job until i found out he was married. That's in another thread though...

Funny thing is each time I was out with a white guy on a date, I felt like others where looking at me like I was a wh@re. I know... My thinking is messed up and dated in regards to this. But, I did feel this way.

When I see an attactive black woman with a white man, i almost feel sad... Like, dayum. She settled. I know this thought is not PC and I know that some of my lhcf sisters are in IR and are geniunely happy.

I really don't want to offend anyone... I just wanted to let this out... I hope that I can gain insight as to why I feel this way... and perhaps change this way of thinking.

OMG you took the words literally outta my mouth, this is how i feel too and i know this isnt "right" but honestly this is how i feel most of the time....im messed up to the point where im thinking slave days ...like massa, and slavegirl...thats what gets me like ...nope cant do it....im crazy, but i cant get this way of thinking outta my head, and i would love to!

 

[Sui Topi]

My husband is philipino

 

[Sui Topi]

Just wondering do you ever feel like your siblings and self could have totally washed out the Black in your family in one generation? I mean if you end up with an other? You all be like the one Black granny in the corner in a family picture a generation or two down I know so many families like this.

Theres four of us and the eldest just had a half italian daughter, second eldest has a son and daughter, scottish, the third 2 half jamaican sons and my son is half philipino...I wonder that all the time...its kinda funny...although the sister with the full black feels her kids may have a complex because theyre the only black ones....I doubt it

 

[missvi]

My baby is black- West Indian and so am I

 

[trini_rican]

My Hubby of 16 years is Argentinean, Latinos. I love dark men though - it's amazing that my hubby could even get me to talk to him - he was so BRIGHT - but he was soooooo FINE!!!!

 

[Islandspyce]

I'm West Indian/American and darling Hubby is white Dutch/American.

 

[TwistNMx]

I'm of American Indian / Black persuasion. My husband is White (from the Long Island area of New York)
We've known each other for about 11-1/2 years now.
~Love knows no color.

 

[Mija]

My dbf is black/white.

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

SO is black American...
I'm Black American/WestIndian and Hispanic. so we're black and black.

 

[curlcomplexity]

My SO is Haitian!!! He actually came to the states when he was three and got his U.S. Citizenship about two years ago. I love when he speaks in "Kreyol". Just wish I know what he was sayin...

 

[KaiT]

I'm Black/Puerto Rican and my baby is White.

 

[camibella]

My SO has a mixed combination. He's primarily caribbean, but has small spurts of caucasian from generations back. We mix well because I am also "mixed" I have German(grandma), and Puerto Rican(father), and my mom is mixed w/ German and Dominican (I think). Anyways I'm always one that have to check the "other" box on those forms. Its either other or hispanic

 

[MariposaSexyGirl]

Love my strong handsome man. We share the same skin complexion. All of my great grand parents were mixed(black ,white ,Creek Indian, Cherokee). His background is similar but we consider ourselves black.

 

[nomadpixi]

I'm many generations of Black (my Mom's research seems to have us as Ghanian or Nigerian and Choctaw Indian) and my fiance is White Australian(Danish). I LOOOVE his accent!

 

[PAPRIKA]

My crush is Black and Latin (Costa Rica) and I am south Louisianian born and raised. My ex is Puerto Rican.

 

[Bublin]

Hey, there's no box for Black Caribbean (born or parentage)

 

[divya]

Hey, there's no box for Black Caribbean (born or parentage)

We get no love...

 

[Dee_33]

New SO is AA.

 

[Opalsunset]

I am Dominican and African American and my good friend(eventual bf ) Is mixed... He is mostly Greek, Jewish, (Fathers side) Mexican,African and Native American (Mothers side) He is so fine, and he has the most amazing personality.