It's like that joke where everybody hates Congress but looooooove their particular congressman. It would be funnier if it weren't so destructive.
Thats their fault Not ours
. Also no ever said there were not any good ones, even i acknowledged that earlier.
Hes aiight. I call his ass out too. And what?This thread is both hilarious and sad. Married women and women with men coming in here to say men ain't spit. But y'all man is good tho, right?
I didnt see this earlier but yes. ITA
I think it is really important, from childhood, that parents have their kids around and interacting with the kids and people they want them to be around. I think this also translates to adulthood. Your circle is only as big as you make it and/or expand it to be.
Well, I don't know if there are really any truly "woke" white folks...but to your point, no, hanging around "woke" white people will not change the systematic and historical racism in America. However, you get to choose what kind of white people you want in your life and that you hang around.
This statement I agree with.
To me, this has more to do with racism than anything else. Both quality and non-quality white men are the ones making the decisons. That is the history of our country.
So to look at this from another perspective, do you think all white people have an agenda? So can there really be any "woke" ones?
Yes it is.
And... grown people gender warring on sm is probably not the best way to socialize young people to their future roles. Especially not when the grown people in question are happily booed up irl. It's everywhere and the babies are noticing, hence sentiments like the Op.
That's what. 
That's not strange to you? We used to have useful discussions here, older women dropping game. We used to actually note at the time, 'Wow, this was useful, you dont get this no where else.' No more. That's a loss for all of us.]
No its not strange because my life opinions honestly arent shaped from what i learned in SM or on here. And again as I stated earlier 90% of them do suck, that leaves 10% of them that dont. My dude can leave that 10% category hes in now and easily go to the 90%. You said in another thread you are a male coddler, so of course this thread isnt for you. I cant relate but i dont tell you how strange and weird that is. I also dont view this discussion as useless. Not my loss its theirs (men).And... grown people gender warring on sm is probably not the best way to socialize young people to their future roles. Especially not when the grown people in question are happily booed up irl. It's everywhere and the babies are noticing, hence sentiments like the Op.
[You don't find it odd that even here, where we know the demographics- higher incomes, married- that all we talk about, thread after thread, is how much men suck? It's the equivalent of talking down the stock market while you're still invested.
I was not at all being serious. I repeated it because it's so patently ridiculous. It's only since I started saying this... bwe (?) is not on the up and up that I've been approached in this way. Everybody who reads my posts on the relationship forum knows this. But somehow, this man-coddling thing is what people choose to go with. I literally do. not. work. Of course I expect men to come with it. Y'all really have to stop confusing sociological conversations with personal ones. , basically any way of removing men from the population). Typically, the remaining families rebuild. What y'all are doing (I group bwe and the Tommy Sotomayors together, two sides of the same coin), issuing a steady stream of wide spread propaganda against your natural mates, has never been seen before in recorded history. Y'all are acting like it's normal and reasonable. It's not. I was a history major but let me try to put this in stem terms: the host is destroying itself (the community) vs destroying the parasite (white supremacy). Did that make sense? Nobody else has done this, and I go way back. It's just not a good plan. 
And... grown people gender warring on sm is probably not the best way to socialize young people to their future roles. Especially not when the grown people in question are happily booed up irl. It's everywhere and the babies are noticing, hence sentiments like the Op.
[You don't find it odd that even here, where we know the demographics- higher incomes, married- that all we talk about, thread after thread, is how much men suck? It's the equivalent of talking down the stock market while you're still invested.
I've been reading this thread confused since it was posted 
Social media
It's funny cuz, in the bad old six figure garbage man days, my standards for men were called too high.
But, in reference to the rest of your post, it's not about you or me. It's about numbers and trends. This is a period with fewer marriageable men. It has happened many, many times before, in times of war (or mass incarceration
And... grown people gender warring on sm is probably not the best way to socialize young people to their future roles. Especially not when the grown people in question are happily booed up irl. It's everywhere and the babies are noticing, hence sentiments like the Op.
[You don't find it odd that even here, where we know the demographics- higher incomes, married- that all we talk about, thread after thread, is how much men suck? It's the equivalent of talking down the stock market while you're still invested.
Doesn't it though? Aren't the overwhelming majority of murderers, thieves, rapists and child molesters etc men? Or am I missing something?Alladis!
What's also mind boggling are the threads/posts about how men can't be trusted around kids because they are all potential pedophiles...but we procreate with them
I noticed the women vs. men debate as if the aint ish men outnumber the aint ish women. We're always the victims I guess?
Just food for thought. For the women in here who have been consistently been "unlucky in love" (for lack of a better term), you don't think this mindset could be an impedent to landing a "good" man?
Just food for thought. For the women in here who have been consistently been "unlucky in love" (for lack of a better term), you don't think this mindset could be an impedent to landing a "good" man?
Great analogy
. There are more ain't ish men than women because society accepts and often encourages bad behavior from men because "boys will be boys". Meanwhile, women are expected to be proper, and unacceptable behavior is called out and corrected early. This is because our patriarchal society prepares women to be the companions of men and not the other way around.
This is a brilliant analogy.
That's exactly what it is. Women who aren't dependent have a different mindset.
