hairenergizer
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This is a topic that have been on my mind for a very long time. As women I think some of us can go in very hard on men. I believe that everything takes time. The question is do you feel that women should ask for money & gifts in the beginning, especially when its only just a sexual or friend thing and nothing else. Not even considered as a couple.
I have a friend who states to me all the time, "did you ask or try him to see if he would give you any money"? Then she'll say, well they don't hesitate to ask you for your arse. Lol This really makes me mad because how can you ask somebody for money right off the top?
So again am I missing something here? Should I be asking for money and other things? Do you operate like this?
Some of you are misunderstanding I think. I agree with some of you to some extinct. However I am not saying I want to commit, because I am not ready to commit to this individual but that doesn't say that you can't have sex with someone. I am saying if I choose to have sex without a commitment then I still feel that it's awkward to be asking for money off the top. For me that's like selling yourself. Now if a man offers to give me something then that's a whole different thing. I'm just not going to be asking for money just because I/we choose to give you sex.
Wanted to see how some of us (women) think on this subject, that's all.
I have a friend who states to me all the time, "did you ask or try him to see if he would give you any money"? Then she'll say, well they don't hesitate to ask you for your arse. Lol This really makes me mad because how can you ask somebody for money right off the top?
So again am I missing something here? Should I be asking for money and other things? Do you operate like this?
Some of you are misunderstanding I think. I agree with some of you to some extinct. However I am not saying I want to commit, because I am not ready to commit to this individual but that doesn't say that you can't have sex with someone. I am saying if I choose to have sex without a commitment then I still feel that it's awkward to be asking for money off the top. For me that's like selling yourself. Now if a man offers to give me something then that's a whole different thing. I'm just not going to be asking for money just because I/we choose to give you sex.
Wanted to see how some of us (women) think on this subject, that's all.
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