She Updated.....Ateya's Perm day!

[gymfreak336]

Why come LHCFers gotta clown and get out of pocket on Youtube?
We are bad about that man. Then why somebody always have to come out and call us coochie cream users-- a few users got the whole board labeled as pet store shelf emptiers. The whole board gets labeled. It's funny, but dang y'all and y'all methods.

We do that enough here.

 

[Tee]

Our Father which art in Heaven...help your people.

I am checking out on that note. I love you girl!!!

 

[Kirei]

I was talking about the same thing with someone today via pm. I do actually question some peoples sanity when I read what they post But everyone is never going to agree on everything

True! Sometimes, I am not expecting people to say the things they say about other humans. Topics like those get me every time but, today I felt it in my heart, we need a change Obama can't give us. Okay, off soap box now. Still ....

Sometimes we clearly don't chew up our words before we spit them out.

 

[plastic]

i really think it is sweet that she tried and did that for her viewers ...

i really had to look hard to see her ng, I kept replaying the beginning looking for growth .. Wtv she thought she had is what I have 2 weeks post

she takes the comments really well .. probably thinking .. im never doing this ish again

its funny how people know about LHCF and what the women on here uses... must be lurkers ... (that use the coochie cream in their basement when everyone is sleeping)

i like the song

 

[Iluvsmuhgrass]

I know what you mean, especially when people just go too far. I be at home like dang, let me go get a glass of wine and come back in 15.

Girl why did this make me go get a glass of my brother's home made scuppernong wine.

 

[MAMATO]

I love Youtube's videos and tutorials. Ateyaa, Lorraine, Traycee, Irresistible, Ladylibra and even that sweet 20-yr old little girl (I don't remember her name) etc... These girls are very courageous to expose themselves like they do in order to help other sisters. Shout-outs to all of them. But nobody is perfect, we may need to take what works for us and leave the rest. I overlaped for years and never moisturized or deep conditioned and my hair never broke off. My pre-poos techniques were probably what made the difference and kept my hair healthy. So every body's hair is different, she's only showing what works for her and is always very clear about that.

 

[gymfreak336]

True! Sometimes, I am not expecting people to say the things they say about other humans. Topics like those get me every time but, today I felt it in my heart, we need a change Obama can't give us. Okay, off soap box now. Still ....

Sometimes we clearly don't chew up our words before we spit them out.

Girl, lets not even go there. He has my vote but people need to get real with what he will be able to do. You can't get to the masters table and then bite his hand. For the changes america needs and the changes we "say" we want, it will take a restructuring of the whole foundation we are built on and that is not going to happen. Not in one presidency, not in his and probably not in my lifetime. Sorry, I know I went off on a tangent....Back to the subject.

I understand....I was just talking about some things like this today with my mother. Not only do we not chew up our words before we spit them out, we also don't pay attention to what we swallow and we don't connect the dots between what we say and how if affects the outcome of our lives and the ones around us.

 

[gymfreak336]

Girl why did this make me go get a glass of my brother's home made scuppernong wine.

What!!! I love that stuff. Brings back some good ol memories....hot southern heat, cute farm boys with the abs to prove it and a lake

 

[Iluvsmuhgrass]

we don't connect the dots between what we say and how if affects the outcome of our lives and the ones around us.

I was talking to my mom and boyfriend about this today.

 

[gymfreak336]

I was talking to my mom and boyfriend about this today.

Ya know. If all you talk about is how bad things are for you and how you will never do xyz....then what do you expect?

You can always change your position in life. You are only limited by your belief in your ability to do so. You just have to find a way.

 

[Iluvsmuhgrass]

Girl shut up!!!!! We were JUST talking about THAT a few hours ago. People don't seem to understand that words and thoughts have power.

 

[Kirei]

Girl, lets not even go there. He has my vote but people need to get real with what he will be able to do. You can't get to the masters table and then bite his hand. For the changes america needs and the changes we "say" we want, it will take a restructuring of the whole foundation we are built on and that is not going to happen. Not in one presidency, not in his and probably not in my lifetime. Sorry, I know I went off on a tangent....Back to the subject.

I understand....I was just talking about some things like this today with my mother. Not only do we not chew up our words before we spit them out, we also don't pay attention to what we swallow and we don't connect the dots between what we say and how if affects the outcome of our lives and the ones around us.

I know I say some ignorant things, don't we all, but the hate I feel from others sometimes is so strong you could cut it with a knife. That shouldn't be.

Basically, not thinking before you speak and really wondering how it would feel if it were said back to you or even remembering how it felt when it may have been said to you or your ancestors. Maybe it makes them feel better?

Girl, "we" don't know what "we" want at all. OT is a prime example of that.

But I digress...nice to come in here and get a laugh though I did need it.

Still @ coochiecream and pet shampoo!

 

[Kirei]

Girl shut up!!!!! We were JUST talking about THAT a few hours ago. People don't seem to understand that words and thoughts have power.

When it is them on the receiving end they will understand, perfectly.

 

[SparklingFlame]

Well well well well. Looks like I got a lot of reading to do.

 

[mistee11]

I A .. I SOOOO AGREE



rude ? I didn't see anything rude at all

I just looked at her updated vids and yeah there were some really rude comments made between some posters and I think that somebody even threw in a slander towards our hair forum... Totally uncalled for! Ateyaa took the high road though and totally ignored the ignorant grunts. She rocks! :2cool:

 

[gymfreak336]

I know I say some ignorant things, don't we all, but the hate I feel from others sometimes is so strong you could cut it with a knife. That shouldn't be.

Basically, not thinking before you speak and really wondering how it would feel if it were said back to you or even remembering how it felt when it may have been said to you or your ancestors. Maybe it makes them feel better?

Girl, "we" don't know what "we" want at all. OT is a prime example of that.

But I digress...nice to come in here and get a laugh though I did need it.

Still @ coochiecream and pet shampoo!

I know I am a straight fool I am not serious all of the time but I do try to think about things that I say, especially concerning major issues our community has today or things about my future. There are alot of things I talked about with my mom today that certain posts here made me think about, like Bint Yusef's post about how we codone certain behaviors that contribute to some of the same problems we have in our society today. We really had great discussion on that one.

 

[plastic]

I just looked at her updated vids and yeah there were some really rude comments made between some posters and I think that somebody even threw in a slander towards our hair forum... Totally uncalled for! Ateyaa took the high road though and totally ignored the ignorant grunts. She rocks! :2cool:

those comments came afterwards .. but thanks !!!

 

[mistee11]

Girl, lets not even go there. He has my vote but people need to get real with what he will be able to do. You can't get to the masters table and then bite his hand. For the changes america needs and the changes we "say" we want, it will take a restructuring of the whole foundation we are built on and that is not going to happen. Not in one presidency, not in his and probably not in my lifetime. Sorry, I know I went off on a tangent....Back to the subject.

I understand....I was just talking about some things like this today with my mother. Not only do we not chew up our words before we spit them out, we also don't pay attention to what we swallow and we don't connect the dots between what we say and how if affects the outcome of our lives and the ones around us.

Amen! Well said.

 

[Kirei]

I know I am a straight fool I am not serious all of the time but I do try to think about things that I say, especially concerning major issues our community has today or things about my future. There are alot of things I talked about with my mom today that certain posts here made me think about, like Bint Yusef's post about how we codone certain behaviors that contribute to some of the same problems we have in our society today. We really had great discussion on that one.

Don't we though! Everything is acceptable and okay, nothing is off limits anymore. Nothing is bad or unaaceptable, it is basically a free for all in our society with the children catching the worse end of the stick. But, don't you go around pointing that out, you will be stoned or nailed to the stake.

This freedom of speech is really getting out of hand, IMO, some of the things said are just, WOW! "Did you just say that with a straight face?" I actually had to ask someone if they were serious earlier, I couldn't believe it.

 

[JOI]

Huh??

I was ROFL Laughing at that one.

 

[SparklingFlame]

BTW sometimes if your hair reverts too soon after relaxers it is OK to overlap the next time you relax, it is basically like doing a corrective. Especially if you want bone straight hair all the way down and your hair takes too long to process to being all the way straight. Her hair isnt coming out in clumps because she is clearly doing what works for her (and it worked for me in the past as well).

We have some popular members relaxing over and over again within weeks who we have been able to accept... but we want to tear into this girl for overlapping a little when she relaxes? Did I miss something? Was she doing an Aphogee treatment mixed with Henna and Cholesterol or something? Did she rinse with Listerine?

Guuuuurl ionno if you talking about me but they ripped me a new azzhole for doing that. But me, I shook it off and kept doing me!

 

[gymfreak336]

Don't we though! Everything is acceptable and okay, nothing is off limits anymore. Nothing is bad or unaaceptable, it is basically a free for all in our society with the children catching the worse end of the stick. But, don't you go around pointing that out, you will be stoned or nailed to the stake.

This freedom of speech is really getting out of hand, IMO, some of the things said are just, WOW! "Did you just say that with a straight face?" I actually had to ask someone if they were serious earlier, I couldn't believe it.

And you really see this in children. I hate going to walmart now because all I think about is the *** beating I want to hand out to some of those children. Seriously, no boundaries, no responsibilities and then people act all shocked when they show out or when they start completely bugging out when they hit those teenaged years. I really question the type of future we have in this country.

 

[Rain20]

I think her hair looks great. I must have missed all the serious overlapping. I think she may have had some trouble trying to perm in front of the camera and talk on the phone. Yes it's obvious she does not perm every 6 months. I think she mentioned that her hair is healthier than its ever been. If her hair was having any setbacks she probably would change things up. She uses a lot a protein so maybe she can withstand an occasional overlapping. Still A Lady has proven some hair can withstand relaxers more than others. I think her hair looks more moisturized, thicker and healthier than some long time LHCFers using growth aides and the like. So all this to say cut her some slack. No one is perfect, not even folks on this forum.

 

[Kirei]

And you really see this in children. I hate going to walmart now because all I think about is the *** beating I want to hand out to some of those children. Seriously, no boundaries, no responsibilities and then people act all shocked when they show out or when they start completely bugging out when they hit those teenaged years. I really question the type of future we have in this country.

No lie, I was in Wal-Mart standing in the check-out with DH, I was facing the register and this little boy had to be about 8 or 9, squeezed his way between me and I mean his head was in my butt and hand up my skirt! I cursed him out with the quickness! I was so mad! No manners behind! My husband gave that boy the look of death.

These children need more than a whoop down, half of them look like they get whoop downs everyday. I mean some look so strung out and loopy, heaven help them. Walking through the store screaming and running through the store.

I always tell my husband it is not the adults I fear, it is the children they seem to be losing their mind! No sense whatsoever and will curse you out worse than your grandma could!erplexed

 

[SmartyPants]

Why come LHCFers gotta clown and get out of pocket on Youtube?

We are bad about that man. Then why somebody always have to come out and call us coochie cream users-- a few users got the whole board labeled as pet store shelf emptiers. The whole board gets labeled. It's funny, but dang y'all and y'all methods.

 

[eunique]

I remember that college girl that used grease in her vids, she was dragged through the mud for the grease and her hair was BSL or a bit shorter.

she of course didn't read the king EVOO version of the LHCF bible. they would've left her alone. let he who is without petrolatum cast the first hot comb!

 

[Irresistible]

she of course didn't read the king EVOO version of the LHCF bible. they would've left her alone. let he who is without petrolatum cast the first hot comb!

LOL that was funnay!!!

 

[curlcomplexity]

she of course didn't read the king EVOO version of the LHCF bible. they would've left her alone. let he who is without petrolatum cast the first hot comb!

People....PEOPLE!!! Ya'll leave Ateya alone! I said is once and I'll say it again...to each their own. I saw all those comments

 

[aloof one]

Guuuuurl ionno if you talking about me but they ripped me a new azzhole for doing that. But me, I shook it off and kept doing me!

You amongst others. Plenty of folks have done correctives back to back and asked about it.. You got a hella lotta one-stars and an e-friendly beat down (I think i was there for at least two of your relaxers), but this girl is getting roasted over there (folks are subtle here, but they lose all inhibition when they log onto Youtube). In your case, everyone (as far as I see) got over what you did because it worked for you, you aren't bald, and your hair still looks great. This girl's hair looks great, yet all I see in this thread is people going on about how its wrong... even though it clearly worked for her.

Not directed at you SAL: Sometimes I think its better to just recognize she has skills and move on, instead of complaining that her reggie wouldn't work for them (as if she suggested they do it...)

People think because they paid their 5 dollars that they are somehow gurus themselves who are authorized to go around and judge every strand of hair that isnt attached to their own heads/bodies. Like posting everyday makes them hair experts. I just want to add this: You do not have to be jealous to be a hater. You could very well just believe that what you do is better than them and judge them based on your standards. Thats all it takes.

 

[tocktick]

BTW sometimes if your hair reverts too soon after relaxers it is OK to overlap the next time you relax, it is basically like doing a corrective. Especially if you want bone straight hair all the way down and your hair takes too long to process to being all the way straight. Her hair isnt coming out in clumps because she is clearly doing what works for her (and it worked for me in the past as well).

We have some popular members relaxing over and over again within weeks who we have been able to accept... but we want to tear into this girl for overlapping a little when she relaxes? Did I miss something? Was she doing an Aphogee treatment mixed with Henna and Cholesterol or something? Did she rinse with Listerine?

the popular member was getting a corrective and people did get on her case for relaxing multiple times in a short period .

even if there are a few people who have done corectives a lot, no where does ateya mention the overlapping is due to this. therefore, she can't even be compared to them. she looks like she's overlapping because she doesn't actually know better. and her previously relaxed hair looks bone straight to me.

she has great hair but her practices are not all that healthy. obviously not everybody here has them either but i doubt they have heavily watched and subscribed youtube channels too where people are following her techniques.

This is off topic, but did anyone watch this vid of a girl getting an afro perm?

It was in the related video section for ateyaas vid.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4NN_wXC-PQ&feature=related




I'm sorry, but wooooooooow....

it looks awful. she looks like annie all grown up .