Right, I understand all of that.
But she's saying that it's not due to medical reasons, depression or anything major (or else I assume she would have mentioned the event/situation)...that's why I'm kind of confused and wondering. 8 months is a LONG time to be refusing sex or making excuses without knowing what is wrong.
If there's a death in the family, or illness, or depression or whatever, then that's understandable. But if there's nothing else (otherwise mentioned) going on, then I don't understand, and as a wife I WOULD be definitely concerned.
I definitely know that sex isn't everything, but if my husband can't communicate to me what is wrong and why his libido has changed then there is a problem.
Maybe digging a little deeper is necessary?? Idk... to me it's just not normal.....
erplexed There's gotta be
something going on. Maybe the OP does know but doesn't want to share...and that's okay. But to me 8 months is a long time for a MAN (not necessarily a woman) to be refusing sex if nothing else (visibly seen/mentioned) is at play. There's something up I would think.