My best friend had a baby and I'm the godmother. Things didn't workout between her and the father so they broke up but they live together because of financial restraints. I went to visit them and slept over Mon and Tues night.
Monday night:
I realise that the babydaddy (bd) puts his hand on my butt when he hugs me.
My bf was coming over to visit me there and I was changing in the bedroom the bd walks in on me. (I don't think it was on purpose)
He walks in on my bf and I asleep after being intimate,we were both naked.
Tuesday night:
Same hugging thing
He's always finding a reason to touch me now
Asking me inappropriate things like how does your bf make love to you, well I would do it like this.
Just always talking about sex to me and all the things he does, how big he is, commenting on my body when he saw me naked.
So I came to the conclusion that he was coming on to me and tried to find a way not to be around him.
I was debating whether or not to tell her because she has so much stress and drama in her life, that I didn't want to add to it. But she loves him for some strange reason after all he's done to her and I felt like I had to tell her to expose just how horrible he is. Why would you be coming on to your babymomma's bf and your child's godmother? and the thing is he did it smart, he never told me directly, he went around it, so if she were to confront him he could be like 'oh well I never told her I wanted her.'
I was on the phone with her tonight and she's talking about how she needs to leave and move on with her life but her love for him is holding her back.
I told her, what else did she need to hear to get her *** up and go!!!
She was crying and wanting to go cuss him out and she said that I should have told her when it was happening, so now I feel like I should have told her then or not at all.
What I'm most concerned about is what's gonna happen afterwards. She has no money, no shelter, no car.
I told her to keep her cool until she could go to minnesotta. I would gladly take her in but I'd have to ask my mom first and I can't help her financially because I'm 19 in college dependent on my parents.
Any suggestions, advice, comments
I don't know what to do, I felt like I did the wrong thing cuz its not like she can just get up and go in the middle of the night.
Monday night:
I realise that the babydaddy (bd) puts his hand on my butt when he hugs me.
My bf was coming over to visit me there and I was changing in the bedroom the bd walks in on me. (I don't think it was on purpose)
He walks in on my bf and I asleep after being intimate,we were both naked.
Tuesday night:
Same hugging thing
He's always finding a reason to touch me now
Asking me inappropriate things like how does your bf make love to you, well I would do it like this.
Just always talking about sex to me and all the things he does, how big he is, commenting on my body when he saw me naked.
So I came to the conclusion that he was coming on to me and tried to find a way not to be around him.
I was debating whether or not to tell her because she has so much stress and drama in her life, that I didn't want to add to it. But she loves him for some strange reason after all he's done to her and I felt like I had to tell her to expose just how horrible he is. Why would you be coming on to your babymomma's bf and your child's godmother? and the thing is he did it smart, he never told me directly, he went around it, so if she were to confront him he could be like 'oh well I never told her I wanted her.'
I was on the phone with her tonight and she's talking about how she needs to leave and move on with her life but her love for him is holding her back.
I told her, what else did she need to hear to get her *** up and go!!!
She was crying and wanting to go cuss him out and she said that I should have told her when it was happening, so now I feel like I should have told her then or not at all.
What I'm most concerned about is what's gonna happen afterwards. She has no money, no shelter, no car.
I told her to keep her cool until she could go to minnesotta. I would gladly take her in but I'd have to ask my mom first and I can't help her financially because I'm 19 in college dependent on my parents.
Any suggestions, advice, comments
I don't know what to do, I felt like I did the wrong thing cuz its not like she can just get up and go in the middle of the night.