I was about to respond like that but I thought I was the only one who may feel that way. I know several Christian people who were having premarital sex, and now that they are married, it is not sin for them to have sex anymore, but for as long as they are unrepentant of their past action, the marriage hasn't undone it, merely precluded the future repetition of it. They didn't get married because they were trying to make things right, they were going to anyway, and if they didn't, you best believe they'd still be screwing each other.
Only God knows everybody's hearts, and that, at the end of the day is all that matters.
Your whole post in on point, but the bolded speaks the real truth!!!!!!!
Our hearts is what matters to HIM, in my opinion!
I admit, I don't understand everything about homosexuality, and I don't think the bible is "wrong," but I've prayed to God to be more like HIM, and in my experience, what He's shown me is your bolded. He's shown me that, Cocoberry, you don't know everyone's hearts, only I do.
I'm not trying to get all preachy up in here, but sometimes I think we (Christians) like to look at a situation, whatever it is, and take the bible and slash people with it. Of course God created his commandments, and I don't deny that. But, how can I (or anyone) truly know what makes someone the way they are. This doesn't just apply to homosexuality. This applies to other things like pathological liars, thieves, child predators (this is something I also had to pray about b/c I just could NOT understand how someone could do this to a child), murderers, etc.
Only God was there from the beginning to the end of someone's life, and only HE truly knows the who, what, when, where and why of every situation (like only God knows where Jimmy Hoffa is
). In knowing that, I am able to say, this is why I, would be able to attend a friends wedding if he/she was homosexual. But, everyone has the right to think what they want on this subject, and if you truly believe the Lord has spoken to you and told you not to go, then don't!