guys are pretty backwards....well what we teach in society in general is backwards....pops talked alot to me about men, their actions, emotions, game etc....we would have hours long talks....and to alot of men cheating doesn't necessarily mean they don't love you, however most cannot handle the emotional trauma caused to them if they get cheated on...we tend to teach our women that its okay to express emotion and be emotional and lovey dovey and to act with our hearts.....for men we tend to overly encourage them to act with their egos vs their hearts....from the jump....the sexes are butting heads because for women to go out and just have sex with men just to have sex they get labeled every bottom barrel label the dictionary carries and some more made up ones, while as a mans whole worth can easily be put upon how many women he can get....even when a man finds a woman he loves...his ego is still driven to deflect his heart and still try to conquer women because he can easily fight against love with the assumption it makes him weak...or GOD forbid a woman ever get over on him and leave him like a helpless broken little puppy dog....no to be strong is to conquer women, not submit to them or love if they can try to help it (even though it feels like heaven to them when they find it).....and in our society emotional loving men are the "weaker" man....he's not a man's man...he's the simp, the p whipped dude, the sucker who treats a woman like a queen and all he thinks about is the love she gives to him and cherishes it (yes there are men like this, and on the flip some women still want to go after the man's man and try to change him and get caught up or the woman cheats on the good dude with the man's man)....and even for those guys who rather be in love with one woman, get around enough of their so called friends clowing and talkin about them enough they may fall into some destructive behavior....
there are all sorts of reasons people cheat and step out and everything can't be pinpointed down to a few specific reasons because between various psychological problems that stem from childhood on up to the present, esp subconscious ones that we aren't aware of but come out in behaviors not really understood by the person, people living with wounded, divided egos and living and being influenced by others in the same state, the fact that no matter how offended some are by being referred to animals that purely operating from physical natural instincts vs whole being of mind, body and soul that we exhibit way more animal behaviors than not, esp the traits of socialistic animals where monogomy is not the norm, and add to it...collective conscious amounts of negative energy not being really balanced out properly by positive energy people are all over the place
as women, I know we are always more times than not the ones who are always getting the advice, work on yourself, find yourself, love yourself etc...and thats for good reason.....the imbalance of over expressed masculine energy and very repressed feminine energy in the world today is throw
they have to go.
