Overly Complimentary Men- Why do they annoy me?

[MzLady78]

@ him popping up. Men kill me with that "Oh, it was a few weeks ago..." when it was indeed years ago! And I'm even harder at the fact that this dude said he was going to call you later! Whew...can't wait to hear how THAT goes.

MzLady78: Hello?
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hey, what's up?
MzLady78: Um, I was just about to organize my sock drawer. Can I call you back?
Lame Dude08: Yeah, thas coo.

Fast forward to December 12, 2008...

MzLady78: Hello?
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hey sexy. I was calling to see what chu been doin? We ain't talked in a few weeks.
MzLady78: Uh, I'm in the middle of something.
Mr GirlUSoFine: What chu doin' for Christmas?
MzLady78: Nothing that involves you.
Mr GirlUSoFine: I like it when you get feisty.
MzLady78:
***dial tone***
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hello? Hello?

LMAO!!!!!!

He actually didn't call, thank godness. Maybe he detected that "could you leave me the hell alone, please" tone in my voice.

 

[crlsweetie912]

@ him popping up. Men kill me with that "Oh, it was a few weeks ago..." when it was indeed years ago! And I'm even harder at the fact that this dude said he was going to call you later! Whew...can't wait to hear how THAT goes.

MzLady78: Hello?
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hey, what's up?
MzLady78: Um, I was just about to organize my sock drawer. Can I call you back?
Lame Dude08: Yeah, thas coo.

Fast forward to December 12, 2008...

MzLady78: Hello?
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hey sexy. I was calling to see what chu been doin? We ain't talked in a few weeks.
MzLady78: Uh, I'm in the middle of something.
Mr GirlUSoFine: What chu doin' for Christmas?
MzLady78: Nothing that involves you.
Mr GirlUSoFine: I like it when you get feisty.
MzLady78:
***dial tone***
Mr GirlUSoFine: Hello? Hello?

DEAD!
RIP. Here Lies CRL 9/12-3/13

 

[DaPPeR]

Right!

I guess it kind of makes me feel like he just into the physical. Like you're not even paying attention to anything else, like my intelligence, etc. And he sounds extra, ummm, riled up when he says it too, like he'd be trying to rip my clothes off if we were face to face, lol.

I know exactly what u mean and its a turn off. Weird but true. If he said that to me, in that manner, I would have become defensive and told him about himself. When I do this, then I become the "immature one, who does not take sex talk well". 95% of the time, I have guys saying sexual things to or about me within our first conversation. I present myself very well and just don't understand why I'm always viewed as this "sexual nymph". smh. That's a whole other thread in itself. But yeah it is annoying MzLady

 

[MzLady78]

I know exactly what u mean and its a turn off. Weird but true. If he said that to me, in that manner, I would have become defensive and told him about himself. When I do this, then I become the "immature one, who does not take sex talk well". 95% of the time, I have guys saying sexual things to or about me within our first conversation. I present myself very well and just don't understand why I'm always viewed as this "sexual nymph". smh. That's a whole other thread in itself. But yeah it is annoying MzLady

OMG- I TOTALLY know what you mean!

I have a loooong history of males doing/saying sexual inappropriate things to me, and I mean starting from elementary school all the way up to a few months ago!

For some reason, guys just seem to think they can say whatever the hell they want to me, even when we just met!

Me and my girls went to a family get together that this guy we know was having. His uncle or cousin thought I was cute and started talking about how sexy I was, how we would tie me to the bed and I could leave my boots on (I had on some knee high ones) I just about died! There were children in the room and everything. I didn't react the way I should have and I was mad at myself for that. My girl, who was not in the room at the time told him she didn't appreciate him making me feel uncomfortable. I told her later, I know I should have cussed his *** out but honestly I'm so used to it at this point.........I know that's the wrong mentality to have, but this all day, every day with me.

 

[erokawa]

Too many compliments bother me if they're from someone I don't really know. My boyfriend gives me compliments pretty often and sometimes I don't know how to react because I'm really not used to it. But he hates when I won't take a compliment.