LifeafterLHCF
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I guess I see "What's up" as the same as "Hi." Just a way to break the ice.
In real life (in person) I would not automatically give the side eye to someone who approaches me and says "What's up?" (Now if they said "What's up shorty" or "What it do?" that is a different story)
It is cool that "What's up" is not the way you want to be approached, and that it a sure way for them not to get a response from you, but I don't think it is disrespectful or that someone is not trying to treat you like a lady by saying it. Let's not confuse weak game with being disrespectful.
I also don't know what his race has to do with anything.
I guess its all about the person as some ladies are more laid back than others.I'm a very serious type of person so each interaction I try to go 100 percent.
The race has nothing but when I'm venting I pull it all out..