Last week, I went out with a guy that I met on POF. He was attractive, educated, great sense of humor...we connected very well in our phone conversations. When we met, we hit it off as well...great chemistry. During the date he asked me out again. So last week, we spoke and he was really busy and stressed with work so we didn't go out during the week and planned to go out on Saturday (NYE). I was pretty excited to have a date on NYE...have fun with good company. Too bad this New School Negro decided to show his a$$. On Thursday when we spoke he was telling how stressed he was at work....Friday...I get a TEXT message from him late in the evening about how he's been knocked out since he got home and how he thinks he's coming down with something because of being worn out
. So I'm like okay...I see where this is headed, when I get the call on the day we're supposed to be going out that he has to cancel I shouldn't feel upset because he did give the "warning signal".
Saturday arrives and I don't hear from him at all, I give him a call early in the afternoon and he doesn't answer his phone, so I leave a voicemail. I get a call from him at 5PM...he doesn't call to apologize for not calling me earlier, or even say that's he canceling our date. He calls as though, we had no plans and everything is all good. He tells me how he's been out all day at a mechanic getting his car fixed, and how he still feels like crap....then this is the KICKER....he says "So what are you up...what are you getting into later?"
I tell him that since I hadn't heard from him I made other plans and would be going out with a friend. He then pulls another trick...he says yeah I just feel so bad, I can't wait to get married so I can have someone at home to take care of me when I'm sick. I think this is new school negro thought I was gonna volunteer to come over and "take care" of him. So I told him that I had to go and finish getting ready. Won't be seeing him again.
Since he's a new school negro, I'm pretty sure that I'll be getting a call from him asking me out again, etc....because that's how they are...they feel entitled. They think that we're waiting in the wings for their call. When he does call I will definitely be telling him about himself.
He's younger than I am, and I didn't want to use that against him at all...but his behavior is typical of his age.
I made some resolutions, and few them included relationships. To be honest in the past I would've probably stood for something like that...and would've given him another chance...now...HELL NO! Dude can kiss the blackest part of my a$$!
erplexed I can't...I just can't.... 
