Girl not really. Just got to think creatively! There's so many better places to meet men than the internet or bars. I don't know where to start. lol concerts festivals bookstores grocery library gym School or take different classes like dance, cooking, computer. traveling. sport games. through friends. house gatherings. weddings. singles parties. church. volunteering. wine tastings. meetup.com museums. happy hour. restaurants. beaches. amusement partks. malls. politcal/charity events. conventions. co ed sport leagues. other adult clubs. film festivals...
I've had an online profile for 3 years and have only got one "date" from it. So I may be biased, but I hate it.
But no one ever approaches. I don't know.I do appreciate the ideas you gave, I'll save them. I'm going to step up my game but if things don't get better by May, I'm going to try online dating.Girl not really. Just got to think creatively! There's so many better places to meet men than the internet or bars. I don't know where to start. lol concerts festivals bookstores grocery library gym School or take different classes like dance, cooking, computer. traveling. sport games. through friends. house gatherings. weddings. singles parties. church. volunteering. wine tastings. meetup.com museums. happy hour. restaurants. beaches. amusement partks. malls. politcal/charity events. conventions. co ed sport leagues. other adult clubs. film festivals...
I've had an online profile for 3 years and have only got one "date" from it. So I may be biased, but I hate it.
omg. could he be more obvious?? You know he copies and pastes that until some insecure woman tears up and replies with glee. There is nothing specific in that message that would even imply he read your profile. sad sad
I'm 21. I think that it's pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend. I could make a guy so happy with just my loyalty alone. I don't want to wait anymore I'm wasting my best years. I'll never look , feel or be this young again.
I'm talking about my friends and family. There is nothing wrong with not dating around or even having a long term relationship by the age of 21. You said you're loyal, and I assume that means you want something meaningful and lasting. Not the type of relationship you are likely to find in that age group. It's rare that the boy you meet when you're both under 21 is going to have a lot of loyalty toward you in the long term. You have probably avoided a lot of heartbreak by not giving yourself emotionally to anyone yet. You have plenty of time, you will still be young for a while yet 
He can't be real. Wooo we are going to die out if there are too many like this out there. Lord, even if you were fool enough to think he was referring to you in that first message, all he goes on about is looks. It's a perfectly fair response to say 'but all you talked about was how pretty I am, that's nice but a relationship needs a bit more' 
I wish you had blocked him the second you realized he was not the one. Live and learn. 
And he probably copies and pastes this message to all the black women who ignore him too.
erplexed
Okay that is weird. Never had a guy do THAT before. I mean, I am trying to think of an innocent reason why a man might prefer to email a woman he has been on dates with already, and I can't.
This is a personal preference, but I don't know if I'm comfortable dating a guy that can't afford to call me, or is so frugal he would rather email me than do so. (if he's grown/not in school/has a job etc). Repeatedly. That kind of behavior is still out of the realm of 'innocent' to me, because it reeks of an issue any woman who hopes to have a relationship with him would have to eventually deal with. Being frugal is one thing, but cheapness on that level would drive me insane. But of course, to each their own. 
