runwaydream
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ok sooo im back from the date. smdh.. ummm.. where do i begin? lol. first off... i started off being absolutely LIVID and here's why...
so seeing how i did all the work in deciding where we should go and finding two arcades, i entrusted him with the difficult task of ensuring the address since from what i've read they move around a lot.
so he tells me a certain address right? ok.. i dont think twice about it i just finish getting ready and go towards that address. it takes me half an hr, which is longer than i thought it would be. i msg him and tell him i may be a bit late, he replies "no problem, take your time." i get to the spot annnnd... it's not the spot. there's nothing there. i call him back extremely confused and after awhile he tells me that that isn't the correct address. that he went to the address that he gave me and there was no one there, he got the correct address from (not sure where) and went there instead and that was were he was at now..
um...
pause.. hold the frick up... SOOOO the boy KNEW he gave me the wrong address and the only reason that it was wrong was bc he didn't ensure it was the correct address like i asked him to even tho i TOLD HIM that they move around often. (which is what ended up happening.) but then to add to it, he doesnt even bother to TELL me?! PLUS it's raining cats and dogs outside?! r u frickin srs?!
so after a few deep breaths (i didnt say any of this to him) i ask for the correct address, i repeat it and write it down before hanging up and using the GPS on my phone to find it. after 15 min of driving i realize that this was taking me all the way to the other side of town, and i remembered asking him which part of town it was on and from what he told me it shouldnt have been so far away. so i call back again and he repeats the address, which is the one he gave me the first time. he tells me he is not sure why i cant find it bc that is the right address.
i ask him if he is certain that the number he gave me is the correct one. he says yes, he is certain. i wanted to ask him to ask someone that works there but didnt want to insult his intelligence, especially since he had to have the correct address to have gotten there in the first place. he tells me the intersection that it is on. so i say okay i'll figure something out. (i've been driving for an hr at this point) also he told me we can just reschedule. but now i am pissed and determined to get to my desired (well, not so much at this point) location. plus i already spent a decent amount of time getting ready. and i knew i would NOT be doing this w. him again. so i say no, i'm on my way.
i go to one of the streets that he told me about and went to a gas station and asked them for the intersection this guy told me about. they tell me where it is and finally i find the plaza that he described when i called him again. now mind you we had said that we are going to a place called "rocky's replay." i drove around this plaza like 3 times. mind you this plaza ISNT that big. and i couldnt find it. so i call him YET AGAIN. he tells me it is by tijuana flats. and i look by there and dont see "rocky's replay" and so i ask, "does it say rocky's replay on it? bc im not seeing that." he goes "no, they changed the name. it's called 'smoky tejano's now'
like.. i mean.. is this guy for REAL?! like REALLY?! HONESTLY?! how the HELL was i supposed to know the name changed?! HOW?! oh wait.. let me guess.. i guess the same way i was supposed to magically know that he gave me the wrong address and i was headed in the wrong direction.
i had to call my friend before i went in there to unload. i was just SOOO mad that this boy can be so STUPID. and to add to it. the address he gave me was WRONG. he told me 4620. he swore up and down it was 4620. repeated that like 5 times. so tell me why it was 7620?! there WAS no 4620 on that street and the only 4620 w. the street name he gave me was clear across town. and when i pointed out that the address was 7620 he goes "yea, that's what i said."
you guys it took everything. and i mean everything in me not to curse him out.
and to add onto it, he seemed annoyed to have been waiting so long. he is NOT as tall as he claimed. now i know guys usually add on a few inches but if you say you're 6'2 i would expect to AT LEAST be 6ft... he wasn't even that!! i mean for realz?! he was good looking though, not as good looking as i thought from his pix but he was still pretty cute. but he couldnt dress worth a damn.
and to top it all off he's one of the quiet types that YOU have to work on opening up. omg.. Jesus take me now.
the positives he had about him was that he was a gentleman. he already had the tokens ready for us to use so i didnt have to worry about that. he held the door open for me w.o me making him and he seemed sweet. but
NEVER again. that was definitely not a good date.
ETA: pls ignore the countless grammatical errors and the atrocious writing skills. im tired and am trying to finish writing this before bed since i have to wake up so early tomorrow.
so seeing how i did all the work in deciding where we should go and finding two arcades, i entrusted him with the difficult task of ensuring the address since from what i've read they move around a lot.
so he tells me a certain address right? ok.. i dont think twice about it i just finish getting ready and go towards that address. it takes me half an hr, which is longer than i thought it would be. i msg him and tell him i may be a bit late, he replies "no problem, take your time." i get to the spot annnnd... it's not the spot. there's nothing there. i call him back extremely confused and after awhile he tells me that that isn't the correct address. that he went to the address that he gave me and there was no one there, he got the correct address from (not sure where) and went there instead and that was were he was at now..
um...
pause.. hold the frick up... SOOOO the boy KNEW he gave me the wrong address and the only reason that it was wrong was bc he didn't ensure it was the correct address like i asked him to even tho i TOLD HIM that they move around often. (which is what ended up happening.) but then to add to it, he doesnt even bother to TELL me?! PLUS it's raining cats and dogs outside?! r u frickin srs?! so after a few deep breaths (i didnt say any of this to him) i ask for the correct address, i repeat it and write it down before hanging up and using the GPS on my phone to find it. after 15 min of driving i realize that this was taking me all the way to the other side of town, and i remembered asking him which part of town it was on and from what he told me it shouldnt have been so far away. so i call back again and he repeats the address, which is the one he gave me the first time. he tells me he is not sure why i cant find it bc that is the right address.
i ask him if he is certain that the number he gave me is the correct one. he says yes, he is certain. i wanted to ask him to ask someone that works there but didnt want to insult his intelligence, especially since he had to have the correct address to have gotten there in the first place. he tells me the intersection that it is on. so i say okay i'll figure something out. (i've been driving for an hr at this point) also he told me we can just reschedule. but now i am pissed and determined to get to my desired (well, not so much at this point) location. plus i already spent a decent amount of time getting ready. and i knew i would NOT be doing this w. him again. so i say no, i'm on my way.
i go to one of the streets that he told me about and went to a gas station and asked them for the intersection this guy told me about. they tell me where it is and finally i find the plaza that he described when i called him again. now mind you we had said that we are going to a place called "rocky's replay." i drove around this plaza like 3 times. mind you this plaza ISNT that big. and i couldnt find it. so i call him YET AGAIN. he tells me it is by tijuana flats. and i look by there and dont see "rocky's replay" and so i ask, "does it say rocky's replay on it? bc im not seeing that." he goes "no, they changed the name. it's called 'smoky tejano's now'
like.. i mean.. is this guy for REAL?! like REALLY?! HONESTLY?! how the HELL was i supposed to know the name changed?! HOW?! oh wait.. let me guess.. i guess the same way i was supposed to magically know that he gave me the wrong address and i was headed in the wrong direction. i had to call my friend before i went in there to unload. i was just SOOO mad that this boy can be so STUPID. and to add to it. the address he gave me was WRONG. he told me 4620. he swore up and down it was 4620. repeated that like 5 times. so tell me why it was 7620?! there WAS no 4620 on that street and the only 4620 w. the street name he gave me was clear across town. and when i pointed out that the address was 7620 he goes "yea, that's what i said."
you guys it took everything. and i mean everything in me not to curse him out.
and to add onto it, he seemed annoyed to have been waiting so long. he is NOT as tall as he claimed. now i know guys usually add on a few inches but if you say you're 6'2 i would expect to AT LEAST be 6ft... he wasn't even that!! i mean for realz?! he was good looking though, not as good looking as i thought from his pix but he was still pretty cute. but he couldnt dress worth a damn.
and to top it all off he's one of the quiet types that YOU have to work on opening up. omg.. Jesus take me now.
the positives he had about him was that he was a gentleman. he already had the tokens ready for us to use so i didnt have to worry about that. he held the door open for me w.o me making him and he seemed sweet. but
NEVER again. that was definitely not a good date.ETA: pls ignore the countless grammatical errors and the atrocious writing skills. im tired and am trying to finish writing this before bed since i have to wake up so early tomorrow.
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you're better than me because I would've bailed out on him after 30 minutes of that mess
lol
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. I asked if he was confused and noted that he wasn't really darker than me. He was kinda like I know but.... Needless to say, I just let that one go. I can't deal with those issues. Sorry.
i was wondering if i should alert the authorities 
