***Online Dating Support Thread***

dude decided to bother me on chat on pof... within the first 10 lines he's telling me about how he only dates african american women who doesn't like a man who's well endowed and then starts spouting off measurements...

me - "why would i need to know that? do you know how offensive that is?" *hits block button*

i hate crap like that.....
 
Victorian said:
That's what I suspected as far as reasons why they might be difficult to date.
Pen Pal J is a quintessential Pisces through and through. It's uncanny how well the descriptions i've read match his personality (and i've never even met him in person). I'm a Scorpio... and I feel a strong desire to help him build his ideal house one day, be published, become an activist, and whatever else his blessed little heart can dream up :lol:

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That's how they reel you in.....then all of a sudden you find yourself trying to make their dream a reality. Like I said...good dudes, just lack any sort of follow through. And yeah...stay dreaming ALL the time. :perplexed
 
Dacia38 said:
I'm a Sagittarius. I've dated Pisces in the past and just came to realize I can never do it again. My main issue is that I tend to find the ones who lack drive and motivation. They were generally nice guys, but tend to keep their heads in the clouds.....always dreaming or talking about what they are going to do, but never acting on it. It also seemed like they were looking to be taken care of. I don't mind taken care of my man to a certain extent, but I can't be babying no grown darn man. I found myself having to motivate or tell them what needed to be done and at what time.
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Dacia38
wow, i'm a sagittarius too, and my ex is a pisces and i swear this post describes him to a T. this is exactly the reason why we didnt work out, even though he is a really sweet and nice person. i think i really need to pay attention to signs a little more often just in case... :look:
 
UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MOTHERF*CK got another buggy motherf*cker... I feel like I need a gif of Awkward Black Girl for that one

he chatted me earlier and we talked for about 20 mins... then around seven he messaged me saying he never got my name... now he just messaged me again talking bout how was lunch. it was hours ago motherf*cker quit bugging me :lol: I hate when they do that.
 
came across this in flag mod, to two different people... and she is black... cmon now girl :rolleyes:

i know im late on replying ..i hope you didnt get discouraged i really like your approach because it was different :) ..but i have to be honest from the gecto i got on this site because i am a broke college student with a whole bunch of things i need to pay..so i wanted a sugar daddy.. the kind who doesnt need sex but can have a good time and enjoys good company a guy that is ok with spoiling and taking care of some of my needs..that is really hard to find and i thnk i am going to give up and just erase my profile. You seem like a very nice guy and i hope you get what you are looking for :) good luck

From jody92 to flagger:

ok you might think im crazy for what im about to say to you but i really have no other choice.. i am a broke college student who needs to come up with 375 dollars by tommorow in order to reserve my dorm room...i know i dont know you but you also wouldn't know ppl you would make a donation too..so could you make a donation to my i need a place to live on campus for the fall fund?lol i know it sounds crazy but i really have no other choice. ps totally understandable if you just skip over this message i cant believe im doing this anyway
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and um if you actually want that to work you gonna have to figure out something better to say cuz you got no game girlfran
 
Can you say tramp? I meant seriously...who don't need a sugar daddy that doesn't need sex. Homegirl needs to realize those days are long gone. I blame those damn makers of Viagra. Switched the game up.
 
idt she's a tramp and idt she's low. she's just desperate. ppl do it all the time, yes men too. she's just being upfront about it, instead of letting the person believe she really loves them and wants to be with them.

men also do it all the time with sex. i've seen plenty of men just stating they want sex or a purely physical relationship in their profiles or in messages they send. i of course ignore those men, but i am grateful that they made their intentions known up front.

I don't blame this girl and i hope she's able to find a guy to supply her with some cash.
 
I've got a question for you ladies. I met this dude on Okcupid but all we've been doing is talking on the site. He asked me for my number and he called me last night. His voice sounds a little feminine! I was shocked. He's such a nice guy and I don't want to brush him off because of that. Have any of you ladies ever been in this situation and what did you do?
 
One of my friends started emailing a dude she met on Match.

In the course of their "getting-to-know you" exchanges.....he started to asking very detailed questions which seemed FINE until he started asking for MONEY to buy an airline to ticket to come to see her.

Now.....they have never met and this guys has her full name, address (which he got by saying he was going to send her flowers, which never arrived), details about her job and family.

She was nonchalant about the whole thing but this really freaked me out!

This just spells scam or identity theft in the making. Or worse - what if he's a crazy stalker/killer?
 
danigurl18 said:
I've got a question for you ladies. I met this dude on Okcupid but all we've been doing is talking on the site. He asked me for my number and he called me last night. His voice sounds a little feminine! I was shocked. He's such a nice guy and I don't want to brush him off because of that. Have any of you ladies ever been in this situation and what did you do?[/QUOTE]

:grin: ME, ME, ME!

I was shocked the first time I spoke with Mr. 6'7". I mean at that height I assummed he would have extra base in his voice - he sounds just like David Chappelle's "white guy newscaster" voice! :nono:

I say give him a chance IF (and this is a big IF) you really do like him.
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She's on the wrong site for that. match is for those looking for a gf then they can buy them a scarf every 3 months.

anyway I see nothing wrong with sugar arrangements.
 
NaijaTroll said:
She's on the wrong site for that. match is for those looking for a gf then they can buy them a scarf every 3 months.

anyway I see nothing wrong with sugar arrangements.
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right. it's not like both parties don't know what they're getting into.*shrugs*

she should check out craigslist. quite a few guys looking for black sugar babies.:look: :lol:
 
i have tentative plans on going out with this guy tonight. but already i'm turned off. he's tall and cute and we have a lot of the same interests. but i think thats where it may end. he asked me out on a date but when i asked him if he planned anything he tells me no and that "maybe we can go to the movies or the mall"... :stop: THE MALL?!?! for real tho? how old are we?!


so i completely ignore that tomfoolery and start listing off other things. like the museum, an arcade, a place that has a spoken word poetry night tonight. (mind you he still hasn't asked for my number so this process is taking forever and i'm getting pissed)

he says okay to the arcade. but then asks ME which one. so i grit my teeth and start looking up different arcades and msg him back two that i know of. i'm just feeling like this boy is putting in zero effort, and if i wasnt bored and just wanted to go out w. someone new to get my mind off of my ex, i wouldnt even bother.

also, i give him my number, tho he STILL hadn't asked for it, to speed this process along.

and a question for the more traditional ladies that usually let the man pay: i'm wondering.. if we were to go to an arcade, who should pay? should i let him pay for all my games or should i chip in? usually when i go to an arcade w. a guy i allow him to, but i always feel awkward and this guy has such a mediocre job... i feel like arcades are kind of different from other date settings ykwim?
 
I still feel like the guy should pay. "You wanna play this one? *pays for it*" "You need a drink? *pays for it*" "You want something to eat? *pays for it*" "Ooh, look at this one *pays for it*"

This guy is 28 messaging me like he can barely read. I'm like you know what, let's call it a day because you seem kind of slow. And he goes "are serious [sic :lol:] I'm on my phone" well fcking message me when youre on a computer. You're too old to be typing like that.
 
Your dude sounds wack runaway.

Guess he thinks hs "good looks" is enough. Doesnt have to plan ish. what kind of fool gets on a dating site asks for a date and leaves it at that or maybe he figured you'd see him and he could play the "lets chill at my house" game.

The fact that you know what she does already says she's a bad example mischka ;)
 
Ur right many Pisces need to be motivated BUT once you get us going you never regret it. I need motivation to know I'm going in the right direction and doing what should at times. Most Pisces are better with a Dominant mate. Not in the psycho controlling way but just dedicated to being a cheerleader and a guide.

Dacia38 said:
Victorian

I'm a Sagittarius. I've dated Pisces in the past and just came to realize I can never do it again. My main issue is that I tend to find the ones who lack drive and motivation. They were generally nice guys, but tend to keep their heads in the clouds.....always dreaming or talking about what they are going to do, but never acting on it. It also seemed like they were looking to be taken care of. I don't mind taken care of my man to a certain extent, but I can't be babying no grown darn man. I found myself having to motivate or tell them what needed to be done and at what time.
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This board is so not the place to discuss such, hon.

Alot ofr black SBs seem to be in Texas, Ive noticed. I personally find the whole thing fascinating, dont know why people "hate" on them alas it is what it is.

Anyway

I love Pisces men.
 
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