erplexed the guy didnt look nearly as hot in person as he did on his pic. you would think the guy in the pic was his hot younger brother or something. idk what he did to get himself lookin like he did in the pic he sent me buuuut.. 
that was not him. erplexed oh well, he cant say he wasnt warned. 
I'm Mxxxx by the way
, how about you? .....that's all i got lol
I had a date tonight with a man, an older one, 17 years older 
, than me and it went very well! Need help...I got a message from someone that I am actually interested in responding to...but I am having writers block when trying to think of what to say back......it shouldn't be this difficult lol
here's the message:
Hey just passed by and thought you were really cute and wanted to get to know you better. So how's it going? Hope you're doing good
I was going to say something like:
Hi MXXXX, I'm doing well
Instead of sending me a copy and paste message you send to every girl, why not comment on something you read on my profile that shows you are interested/will lead to better conversation instead of the dead end how are you? How is someone supposed to respond to that? 
.....i kinda wanna see pics
I know I sound so nitpicky, but I usually don't respond to those "how are you? can i get to know you?" Especially, since they are usually followed by "so tell me about yourself." Kneegrow, didn't you read my profile?
One time I was being a smart ***... one dude sent me a message, "how r u?" I said, I'm fine. And left it at that. He never replied back.
I find that if a guy is really interested in you, he will at least show some kind of proof that he read/skimmed some part of your page.
...I guess not I know I sound so nitpicky, but I usually don't respond to those "how are you? can i get to know you?" Especially, since they are usually followed by "so tell me about yourself." Kneegrow, didn't you read my profile?
One time I was being a smart ***... one dude sent me a message, "how r u?" I said, I'm fine. And left it at that. He never replied back.
I find that if a guy is really interested in you, he will at least show some kind of proof that he read/skimmed some part of your page.
I was actually thinking that about the message, but I am new to OKcupid so I wasn't sure if this was the standard
I've gotten 5 messages so far and they're all pretty much like that one...none of them seem to really comment on anything in my profile besides the pictures...
but probably not if I check his profile and have reason to suspect he's an idiot. If I can tell from his profile he's a cool, smart dude I don't mind if the message doesn't say much. But if the message is empty and his profile is just as empty and generic, I probably wouldn't reply. However, guys usually do comment on something on my profile (then again I tend to have weird and unusual things on mine that are easy to comment on )lolI respond to hi how are you messages if the guy is cute
) But nothing usually progresses from the how are you guys in my experience.this a-hole has been to my profile 3 times in one night either message me or gtfo. i say clear as day im not going to send the first message.
(im soooooooooooooooooooooo hungry right now omg so cranky
but i hate when dudes come to my page all the time and NEVER message! sometimes if ive seen them like, REPEATEDLY, like upwards of five times on my visitors list i will go ahead and message them just because HI, I SEE YOU, A-HOLE and they don't reply back! wtf is that ugh i love the hide user feature on okc.
erplexed This one dude visited my page for like 5 months and finally sent me a message that said: "how are you?" Now you know .... (I was like you been to my page how many times, and that's all you got?) I ignored him and he's still visiting my page.
