Y'all, I met a guy from Facebook (ran a complete background check on him before meeting him), won't go into the hows and whys but not less than a month of the acquaintance he tried acting like my paw. I had to tell him sternly that I already had a daddy. He said some things that I didn't like but I tried to brush it off:
-The picture he used on facebook is definitely him, BUT FROM A VERY GOOD ANGLE. In real life he is a nerdy, dashiki wearing Poindexter.
-When I would pick up the phone, he would ask if I was talking to another guy on the other line: "Is that why it took you a while to pick up the phone? Look, if there is someone else, or if you are on the phone, you don't have to click over, I understand."
-He would always ask about my period, whether I was on it, about to be on it, the next time I would be on it. Almost everyday. "I wanna see how you act when aunt flow is in town." UM NO.
-He would always ask me about my lab reports from my OB/GYN and asked to see it because he wanted to sleep with me. Um no, we just met a month ago-- yes I am negative for everything but slow your old
down. He would ask about this everyday.
-When I mentioned that my ultimate goal is to lose 50 lbs, he said that based on the food that I post on instagram, "I doubt you'll be able to reach your goal. I'm only saying that because I care about you. I want to be your accountability partner." No you don't, you want to be my dad and I already told your
that I have a father already. I told that
to stop talking.
-He wanted to know the names of my best friends and wanted to meet them. NO!
-One day I didn't call him because I was lost on the road and needed the GPS on my phone to get home. He caught a fit about it and said "Whether you know it or not you have a schedule. Is there someone else?"
-He always wanted to know if there was someone else. SOMEONE ELSE? I DON'T GO WITH YOU. WE ARE NOT TOGETHER.
But the part that made me block him on my phone and social media was this:
-He got mad that I wouldn't visit him (a 2.5 hr drive) because I had stuff to do around my house, plus, I just didn't feel like it. I am not his girlfriend. I am not committed to him. I WAS TIRED and he was turning me off. He got so upset and started throwing a tantrum on the phone for 46 mins and 29 seconds.
-Then this
said that he was coming to my house. UM NO. I specifically told him not to. He kept going on and on about how it was "only fair" that I let him in my house. UM NO, I DON'T OWE YOU A THING. Then out of nowhere he says that he has a relative that lives near me that is having a wedding. At no time during the time that we were dating did he mention that he had a cousin that lived in my area so I assumed that it was a lie. His next statement was "Well I am gonna be in the area." I immediately got off the phone with him.
He called me back four times, sent 3-4 text messages to me, saying that it was urgent, then sent me two video skype requests (HELL NO), then messaged me on facebook, then called again and left messages on my phone.
CODE RED! I immediately gave all of his information to my cousin, my best female friend, and some of my "hair people" just in case he did something as stupid as to come to my house. For a brief moment, I did not feel safe. I should never have to feel that way in any relationship.
You know that
called my house the next day as if nothing happened? But not before he asked me again about my paperwork and if I finally got my car's oil changed...
BLOCKED HIM ON ERYTHANG. THE END.
He mentions about meeting up again but we shall see. I take these first dates with a grain of salt these days (yes I'm officially jaded 
) For once though, I couldn't gauge if he was interested romantically or as a friend. Only time will tell. I will just roll with the punches and continue to do me 
You can get so much iformation online these days about a person, sometimes it's really scary. This guy did have my first and last name. 
however i only met one guy from tinder and he basically sexually assaulted me, so...
