***Online Dating Support Thread***

Match.com is such a bummer. I quit pof to join match again lol.. Now I remember why I quit. It bothers me when I look at the persons ethnicity preference an never see AA.. I also quit Tinder many weeks ago.. If you weren't going to hook up, men moved on.. Had plenty of dates too but they all want to hook up. Ugh.
 
I forgot you delete tinder... You have to swipe left on them same losers all over :ohwell:

These men:

Need to freaking shave and bathe!

I get we have children, but the pics these men have, some of these kids umbilical cords aren't healed yet! How is it you have a child under two, trolling for arse???

And adult owning a vagina in your picture, is going to make me side eye you.

Why are there 500 pics of your car, dog, and boat and none of your face?

Are all these men balding?

I'm tired of these losers with 50-11 pics at sporting events... Really?

And on tinder, everyone crossfits lol


Some gems on my return:
 

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Funny, I met my SO on a dating site. It was the exact day that I was going in to delete it. He sent me a message while I was removing my pics, asking me how I liked my career in IT because that's what he was in as well... I noticed he was a Virgo (I heart Virgo men) and I gave him my number. We've been inseparable for almost 6 months. We didn't start coloring until the 3rd month, and he is the one who put me on a 90 day restriction.
 
Tinder pt 2: Utter failure!

It must be me, Ok Cupid, match, and tinder are all a bust... I'm also in one of the worst regions to be online dating according to OK cupid's graphs... :ohwell:
 

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Yeah I just saw my friend on OkC yesterday, and he had just posted 3 weeks on FB that he had a gf and was in a happy new relationship. SMH
 
aw man

yall

somebody visited my profile today and i immediately recognised the thumbnail. my reaction was like man, i recognise this pic because hes visited me a MILLION times before! i remember this guy! from like my years of using online dating his face is just super familiar to me. but i think i probably never actually go to his profile bc he is 41.

i decided to look today and this is the only thing on it

I guess i should say that i only date women of color. And before you ask, its the color of the skin that i am attracted to.
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whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy online dating is the worst :lol: :cry3:
 
...soooo been lurking in this thread for a while and would agree with the other ladies that thus far, at least for me, this online dating business sucks ...but I do have a question for okc users, so when you get visited daily by people and many of whom I know I'm not their type nor are they my type, we clearly have nothing in common so why do they visit my page to begin with? I was starting to wonder if when you skip through quick matches that you don't like does it look as though you actually visited that person's page? If it does that is not cool
 
gingertea said:
so when you get visited daily by people and many of whom I know I'm not their type nor are they my type, we clearly have nothing in common so why do they visit my page to begin with? I was starting to wonder if when you skip through quick matches that you don't like does it look as though you actually visited that person's page? If it does that is not cool
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If you're changing your profile (ex. answering new questions, uploading new pics, etc.) then you show up in the Recent Activity feed. They may be clicking on your profile there. You don't see your compatibility % in that feed.
 
LaChaBla said:
If you're changing your profile (ex. answering new questions, uploading new pics, etc.) then you show up in the Recent Activity feed. They may be clicking on your profile there. You don't see your compatibility % in that feed.
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hmmm...I haven't answered any questions in a while I just check in periodically on my phone and flip through quickmatches when I'm bored...but I noticed yesterday that I guy I went out with twice (mind you we had great chemistry and had a really good time but after our second date this negro decided to pull a disappearing act so I just left it alone and deleted his contact info out my phone):ohwell: he visited my page but didn't leave a message, and now I'm buggin' a little because I'm trying to figure out why he bother to visit if his arse is about disappearing act games? I'm very tempted to visit his page and give him a nice piece of my mind...but at the same time I think I shouldn't I don't need him thinking I'm sweatin' him idk..:perplexed
 
I get a message that looks suspect, check his profile

I hope y'all can read this madness lol

Let me try to link it

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Wow, he sounds really bitter. Why waste your profile by using it to put people down?
I bet he thinks he's dropping some knowledge.
 
gingertea said:
...soooo been lurking in this thread for a while and would agree with the other ladies that thus far, at least for me, this online dating business sucks ...but I do have a question for okc users, so when you get visited daily by people and many of whom I know I'm not their type nor are they my type, we clearly have nothing in common so why do they visit my page to begin with? I was starting to wonder if when you skip through quick matches that you don't like does it look as though you actually visited that person's page? If it does that is not cool
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I thought they only saw the "view" if you rated them.

I checked out the profiles of the guys who looked at me regardless of whether or not I thought they were my type. I stopped paying attention to the compatibility rating on OKC and just looked at their answers to questions that were important to me.

I took control of the experience though. I initiated contact with the guys that interested me (there weren't many). This helped me to get over the feeling that the online thing sucked. In the end, I only messaged two guys. One of them is my new "friend" and we've been having a good time together for 6 months now. :)

GL girl! Dating is complicated both online and offline. LoL
 
MzSwift said:
Wow, he sounds really bitter. Why waste your profile by using it to put people down?
I bet he thinks he's dropping some knowledge.
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I see SO many dudes like this, it's crazy.

Like who would want to get to know you IRL when you sound like a straight up a-hole in your profile alone?
 
btw people were saying in another thread how turkish men fetishise black women. i swear id have never realized that wrt all the visitors i get from men in turkey :drunk: crazy...
 
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