Hey- on OKC if it says someone chose you.. what does that mean? should i be messaging these people?
It means they rated you a 4 or 5 in the quick match thing. Sometimes you'll get a message saying "we chose each other" which means you both rated each other highly. I used to always send a message to someone who rated me highly and who I also found interesting--basically just a quick "thanks for the rating" kind of message and maybe a comment about their profile. But that never amounted to anything, even if they replied at first.
Honestly I rate guys highly even if they aren't necessarily my "type" or someone I want to talk to, I just think they're good-looking and/or I like their profile (especially if it's really funny or whatever). I assume men often do the same thing, so that's why a lot of the time they won't actually reply to a message you send after they rate you. *shrug*
Guy3 wanted to meet up this week, but I'm busy with various activities I've signed up for with my meetup groups and my art class. Also messaging with couple new guys--one wants to meet up but we're both busy this week, so we'll see what happens next week. The other I just started messaging with a couple days ago. It may be too soon to judge, but I get the feeling he will want to message a whole bunch (or at least that he typically does) before he'll ask to meet. I'm pretty clear about my feelings on the issue in my profile, though, so hopefully he'll step up.
erplexed
look: this may be an issue)
You startin' to sound like Charlotte in Sex & The City. Remember that episode where she double booked? 
