I would tell my mother what happened and then I would ask my friend to not come to the party. I would tell her that your mother didn’t know about how he talked to you that day and that neither of you are comfortable with him being there. Your friend can deal with her own husband and the fall out from her putting you in between them.
You deserve to bring in the new year with your family. I also think your friend was wrong to ask you to answer the door in the first place, forcing you to deal with her angry husband. It’s one thing to have your father/brother/male cousin answer the door. But your female friend? Not cool.
Actually, he was / is allowed back there because it's his home / house.Thank you!! This is the approach I will take.
We’re all 30 and under and she’s the only married friend I have so I’m not used to these situations at all lol. He knew he wasn’t allowed back there so I honestly thought he would just leave since she still didn’t want to see him. Didn’t think he was going to blow up..especially since I kept my cool.
Anyway. Lesson learned!
Thank you!! This is the approach I will take.
Yes, lesson learned . We’re all 30 and under and she’s the only married friend I have so I’m not used to these situations at all lol. He knew he wasn’t allowed back there so I honestly thought he would just leave since she still didn’t want to see him. Didn’t think he was going to blow up..especially since I kept my cool.
Anyway. Lesson learned!
Well I'm not surprised that she doesn't see where you are coming from. Oh well, she's shown you who she is now.
But I think you should have just uninvited them both because no decent spouse would come to an event where their other half was uninvited. The friendship as you knew it before is G.O.N.E