I'm doing online dating right now and recently an Asian guy answered my ad and we went out on a date. Well my Korean girlfriend asked me how dating was and I told her about the Asian guy. Here is what she had to say in her email to me:
PLEASE~~~ stay away from Asian men. Asian men and black women don’t go together. I know I know but that’s a truth… Not many black women look for Asian men either…. When I see Asian men dating black they ALLLL look abnormal. You know what I mean?? Either weird, wild, gang style…..I think I told you that before..
That’s why I’m telling you to stay away from Asian men…
Friends of mine...they don't look weird, wild, or gangstyle...
Your friend is jealous, racist and probably single.
I dated a Chinese guy for about a year before i married DH. Some folks assume because I married a WM that I have a preference. I don't. I'm greedy. I see handsome men of every ethnicity.
Anyway, when we first started dating I had some concerns about how his family might accept me. They were actually very loving and fine with it. His mother was wonderful and he was born in China although he had been here for about 10 years at that point so was rather westernized.
Anyway, I was doing some research back then on cultural differences as well as how prevalent the AM/BW relationships are when I came across a forum about Asian men. (This was a long time ago so I have no idea where the thread I read is). But I remembered the forum name and you might find these threads interesting. I just came across this morning trying to find some info about your situation.
Don't laugh.
http://aznlover.com/community/showt...lationships-between-black-women-and-Asian-men
http://aznlover.com/community/showt...be-willing-to-have-a-child-with-a-Black-Woman